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polyamorous relationships

Sex and Candy – Thoughts on Sex and Femdom

I admire and don’t mind submitting to my partner because of how she always “tops” me sexually and mentally. Continue reading

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Bar Buzz Summer 2016

Is sex addiction like drug addiction? Continue reading

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Polyamory just is

Polyamory might work for those who want to make their relationship more permanent Continue reading

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You could be #poly…and not even know it

“Poly isn’t like monogamy”, … “it’s where you make up the rules of who to play with” Continue reading

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Rules of engagement in kink?

Do bdsm relationships need an etiquette? Participants in bdsm negotiate before they engage in play. There are explicit and unspoken rules that are used in play parties. Many experienced in bdsm lifestyles maintain a thorough communication about aspects of the bdsm … Continue reading

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who wants polyamory more – women or men?

Do women want monogamy more than men? Or, would they consider polyamory if the they weren’t held back by circumstances or societal norms? Here’s one person’s opinion about going back to monogamy: I am poly, and I will not give up my … Continue reading

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Open relationship vs polyamory – is there a difference?

I believe there is a continuity between open and polyamorous relationships. You can start in an open relationship that eventually  becomes a polyamorous one. For some,  having “sex first” (see note [1] below)  is the opening for possible polyamorous relationships (except … Continue reading

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