Category Archives: bdsm-psych

Humiliation & Degradation in BDSM

Posted on February 25, 2019 by dave94015

humiliation can cause significant emotional damage to the bottom or
it can create a deeper trust between top and bottom Continue reading →

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Can BDSM restore intimacy after trauma?

Posted on January 4, 2019 by dave94015

Originally posted on Simply, La Mia Vita:
“I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.” — Carl Jung In many ways, what happened to me has made me stronger. I have learned that my…

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How BDSM can save a marriage

Posted on November 25, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Love Is A Paraphilia:
This has been the sexiest year of my life. Of course, 2011, when I met my partner was a seriously hot one but it wasn’t nearly as deep and intimate as the experiences…

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Can BDSM be good for your mind?

Posted on November 5, 2018 by dave94015

BDSM participants enjoy the experience of getting away from their day-to-day concerns & attending to things that really matter Continue reading →

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The essence of femdom

Posted on August 27, 2018 by dave94015

My Hell is very bearable and My Demons know how to take the reins with equity. Your Brand is My Essence and is imprinted forever in the souls that you possess. Continue reading →

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Kink vs. BDSM – The light and Dark Side

Posted on August 24, 2018 by dave94015

Often one person in a relationship wants & needs dark BDSM & the other partner is reluctant or has no knowledge or experience on how to handle the situation, are afraid to disrupt the relationship equilibrium
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Can Femdom be good for your mental health?

Posted on June 3, 2018 by dave94015

The increased intensity of BDSM intensifies the trust and intimacy between partners. Continue reading →

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Guys! are you Slipping into a #FLR?

Posted on May 21, 2018 by dave94015

FLR’s change the relationship dynamic. Usually,  one member of the couple wants to move further into the FLR than the other Continue reading →

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Sex and Candy – Thoughts on Sex and Femdom

Posted on April 30, 2018 by dave94015

I admire and don’t mind submitting to my partner because of how she always “tops” me sexually and mentally. Continue reading →

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Guys, know your limits in Femdom

Posted on April 25, 2018 by dave94015

consider soft limits as things you’ll eventually come around to liking as you get further into the relationship with your dominant Continue reading →

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