Category Archives: bdsm-culture

Switches can’t be Dominant.

Originally posted on Clio's musings:
Do you like my clickbait as fuck title? 😉 I utterly disagree with the subject. Switches can be Dominant, and some of the best Dominants I have ever encountered have been switches. I’ve received…

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How to get a date with someone with bdsm interests

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Can a submissive show his emotions during a bdsm session – or should he suppress them in the ‘man-box’?

Originally posted on Grind_'n'_Throb:
A few weeks ago, I went to an event that was billed as being a space, “exclusive to Female Dominants and those submissive to them.” This event failed to live up to what was…

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Should a sub guy treat a dominant woman like she is on a pedestal? How guys don’t get a date with a domme.

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
‘You’re not like other Dommes’ is something I have heard many times, a sentiment which usually has been prompted by my having completely normal, polite conversation with a prospective submissive. This is not a surprise,…

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is there life after Tumblr?

Tumblr is about to purge all adult content in less than a week. Many contributors are scrambling to one or more of several contending replacements: Humblr.social – a crowdfunded Mastodon site (Mastodon created “switter.com” a twitter replacement for sex workers. Humblr … Continue reading

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Topping From the Bottom

Originally posted on Love Letters to a Unicorn:
I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up often in sub group discussions?…

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How she was introduced to BDSM at Paddles

Originally posted on Philosopher's Stone Unturned:
I tried to introduce someone to BDSM once. We were partners on-and-off for three years.  I convinced him, after many months, to experiment with tying me up, or spanking me.  But I was…

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