Category Archives: bdsm-culture

Can the Kink scene be improved?

I wish that clientele/submissives would realize that Dominants are more versatile human beings than what’s in their fantasies…We have moments of emotional drops. We are more than just kinky service providers. Continue reading

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Switches can’t be Dominant.

Originally posted on Clio's musings:
Do you like my clickbait as fuck title? 😉 I utterly disagree with the subject. Switches can be Dominant, and some of the best Dominants I have ever encountered have been switches. I’ve received…

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How to get a date with someone with bdsm interests

dating sites for kink are similar to vanilla ones Continue reading

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Can a submissive show his emotions during a bdsm session – or should he suppress them in the ‘man-box’?

A real man is strong and stoic. He doesn’t show emotions other than anger and excitement. Continue reading

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Should a sub guy treat a dominant woman like she is on a pedestal? How guys don’t get a date with a domme.

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
‘You’re not like other Dommes’ is something I have heard many times, a sentiment which usually has been prompted by my having completely normal, polite conversation with a prospective submissive. This is not a surprise,…

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is there life after Tumblr?

Tumblr is about to purge all adult content in less than a week. Many contributors are scrambling to one or more of several contending replacements: Humblr.social – a crowdfunded Mastodon site (Mastodon created “switter.com” a twitter replacement for sex workers. Humblr … Continue reading

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Topping From the Bottom

Originally posted on Love Letters to a Unicorn:
I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up often in sub group discussions?…

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How she was introduced to BDSM at Paddles

Originally posted on Philosopher's Stone Unturned:
I tried to introduce someone to BDSM once. We were partners on-and-off for three years.  I convinced him, after many months, to experiment with tying me up, or spanking me.  But I was…

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Femdom vs. FLR – which is better for you?

The FLR relationship has a implied or explicit contract. Although some guys would consider it, they prefer to test how a FLR feels before they suggest it to their partner. Continue reading

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Kink vs. BDSM – The light and Dark Side

Often one person in a relationship wants & needs dark BDSM & the other partner is reluctant or has no knowledge or experience on how to handle the situation, are afraid to disrupt the relationship equilibrium
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