Monthly Archives: March 2016

Book Giveaway – A/awakening – By: Ava Bell

awakening is free on amazon for one more day!

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Ghomeshi Case: The Correct Judgement

this case failed not because the court gave a pass to the claimed activities but because there was inconsistent testimony to make a case based on evidence

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#30DaysofKink – Days 16 and 17

Originally posted on Krystalla: The musings of a poly-submissive girl:
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? The main thing for me is that my husband isn’t…

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Follow up email

Dating for some is for finding new playmates…but for others it’s for forming a relationship as this post shows

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The Contract….

an example of a m/s contract that states general positions of each but not specifics.

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Task for Sir – Days 13, 14, & 15 – General thoughts about kink and bdsm

Originally posted on lexxiblue:
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? Honestly, I think I could live without kink/BDSM. In fact, lately, I…

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Use Your Safe Words

some thoughts on why one should have & use #safewords

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#30DaysofKink – Day 15

Originally posted on Krystalla: The musings of a poly-submissive girl:
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try. I have a few main ones right now. In no particular order: Consensual non-consent. I’ve always…

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Men are like THIS and women are like THAT, hurr hurr!

Originally posted on hiding in plain sight:
I remember observing here, once, that The Pedant (and a lot of other gender essentialist types) will sometimes describe how men and women are totes different about certain things…and the behaviours he mentions are the…

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Dating a couple

Originally posted on poly pride:
Personally I can’t say that I’ve ever been in the position of dating a couple, but I have been in the couple and noticed a few things that might be useful to anyone considering it…

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