Replacement for Tumblr

Here is an interesting post about replacements for Tumblr

Real Life Female Domination

As most of you know, Tumblr is prohibiting adult content from 19 December 2018. A sad goodbye from me to nearly 19,000 followers.

Has anyone got a good suggestion for a replacement site on which I can both discover and have posted my favourite images and videos?

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tumblr will ban adult content soon – here’s what you can do about it

The last large social media website that allows adult content is about to censor all nudity.

Tumblr will hide all “adult content” on Dec. 17, 2018
If you don’t know what Tumblr is, you have until 12-17 to find out

In our democracy consenting adults are allowed to do whatever they choose in the privacy of their bedroom or playroom. I also believe adults should be free to discuss and exchange ideas of whatever they choose. Corporate owners of social media think we must keep “adult” matters in the closet. 

In the Molly Roberts’ op-ed of the Washington Post Tumblr’s porn ban is depressing. Here’s why.

Last month, Tumblr was removed from the iTunes App Store over its failure to filter out child pornography…Apple, of course, doesn’t want child porn in its App Store. No one should. But Apple also does not want any porn in its App Store. The tech titan is legendary for its desire closely to control the kind of content users can download, and it’s legendarily prudish, too. Hence the prohibition on “apps containing pornographic material” or “user generated content that is frequently pornographic” 

Another potential motivator for Tumblr’s course reversal is the law Congress passed earlier this year holding platforms liable for prostitution or trafficking by users on their site

Mourning Tumblr’s pornographic content is more than mourning sexy GIFs. It’s mourning openness. The Internet democratized sex; suddenly, what was once too taboo to access without stigma was available to anyone with a screen and a search engine. Tumblr made that democratized system more democratic still. Its independent model emphasized performers’ agency, which meant posters’ output was more likely to be ethical and not exploitative. And a focus on creativity over merely clicks for cash led to bodies that were not stereotypically porn-ready, sexualities that sold less well on the mainstream market, kinks that were not presented as some strange sort of “other. ”

Much more will be said on the net but for now the clock is ticking. If you’re new to tumblr, just create an account at and explore. Right click on any photo and “save image as”. 

If you want to download lots of pictures, I suggest use firefox, in search for tumblr downloader professional, install extension on firefox and use it. Select any picture(s) and click download. 

navigate to a screen of pics in tumblr with firefox
click on the “t” in the upper right corner
select show pictures. select ones you want to download. Click save.

Adios Tumblr!

If you already have a Tumblr, you can set up a replacement account on 

Or, you can try with a look similar to tumblr:

screen shot of one of my posts in

Or you can either join reddit or create your subreddit

There are several BDSM subreddits:

Our Subreddit Family

/r/BDSM – Catch all hub for photos, videos, articles, discussion, etc.

/r/BDSMcommunity – Our subreddit for discussion and advice

/r/BDSMfaq – Resources for those looking to learn about BDSM

/r/BDSMerotica – For your BDSM stories

/r/BDSMpersonals – Looking for a partner? Try here!

/r/BDSMvideo – BDSM related videos and porn

/r/BDSMama – AMAs from people in the BDSM community

/r/spanking – Spanking photos and discussion

You can also look at a list of reddits tagged as “fetish” .

Here are few more:


If you decide to leave Tumblr, Don’t forget to tell your fans you’re moving. For example, speedovicious created a subreddit “r/speedos” and bid farewell to his fans on tumblr:

How to back up your tumblr. 

If you have windows, you can use 
TumblThree , Backup software for Tumblr

Download the open source zip file, expand it and run it off your desktop. 

If you join humblr, check out my profile, @dave94015.

If that isn’t enough, Google: “batch download tumblr pictures” or check these videos:

Using the tumblr downloader
a spammy site 

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492. Service Term Creation: Compelled Service

How service in a bdsm relationship can be a combination of domestic, intimate or compelled. It helps that dominants specify which kind of service they want.

Femdom Ramblings from a submissive male

I was reflecting upon a few conversations I have had recently that brought me to write the post 487. Service: Thoughts on What they say vs. What they mean and I had a couple of thoughts regarding how we communicate about service.  I do hope some of these terms manage to catch on.

I came up with the term “intimate service” to refer to sensual, sexual, or pleasurable service because I believe there are people who have a kink for this but do not desire to perform domestic service.  Also, I believe there are people who desire domestic service but do not wish to receive intimate service.

A new term that I have made up that was not included in that previous service post is, “compelled service.”  I would define compelled service as an arrangement where the service provider is obligated to perform services under the threat of consequences.  e.g…

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BDSM and Kink for Beta males: The willingly cuckolded Dom and the beta cissy

Do guys really get off from cuckoldry? Can you have D/s without a safeword? Many points for guys to ponder here:

The Reluctant Gentleman

I once read somewhere on wordpress a short tale of a submissive woman’s chat with her D-type. She had recieved criticism from some people at a play party and she respectively confided in her D-type about it.

In his attempt to comfort her, he told her something along the lines of “This is a submissive’s world. Bdsm is in the mind, not the body.” And finally ended with “You have all the power, is that not the point?”

The level of crigne is tipping the scale so far even shamu is blushing.

Firstly, BDSM’s core principles are mind, body, spirit. So the theory that BDSM is of the mind and not the body, is incorrect. Second, the notion that the submissives have all the power negates the point of a power exchange and equally, invalidates the D-type in their position. It is a very toxic and dangerous bit of misonformation…

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The Naked Interviews: Interview with a Porn Actor

The ins and outs for guys wanting to become an erotic actor as told by Marcus Quillian – read post here:

Unicorn Hunting

Welcome to the first of the naked interviews. Stripped down, laid bare and naughty, let’s talk to people you might not meet every day and ask them the questions you really want to. Are we both actually naked in the interview? Maybe.

Our first naked interview is with the delightful and astute art-house style actor and producer, Marcus Quillian, who once described himself on a chat group as ‘your friendly neighbourhood pornographer’. Sit back, relax, and let’s learn all about the wonderful mysterious underworld of the porn industry.

How would you describe yourself?

I am an adult performer and film maker. Also an actor, a musician.

How did you get into the adult performance industry?

I started doing modelling for different levels, from nude/art nudes, to mainstream fashion and lifestyle. That sort of moved into fetish style for stills for photographers, and I was really enjoying it so I thought…

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Day 2 of the Kinky Advent Calendar 2018

How blindfolding may or may not be a turnon in a bdsm session…and the pain that can be administered with a condom wrapper! read this post at:

Slap Ass For Motivation

Day 2 – Sensory Play
Primal & Sadism

I always joke about that the blindfold is a Dominant’s best friend. They create anticipation and they make sometimes the mundane tasks of preparation feel exciting to the submissive. When I’m the one in charge, I like to have control over where my prey sets their eyes on. Sometimes I like to have them look me in the eyes when I spank them. But sometimes I like to point their gaze to the opposite direction so that they can’t see where the next blow hits.

I’ve been blindfolded, my hearing blocked by headphones, and tied up. To be completely honest, I didn’t realize back then that I actually didn’t enjoy the not seeing part, darkness just always comforted me and I feel safe when I can’t see. I know, I’m weird. However, I am a very visual oriented person when it comes…

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The fun, huge and intriguing BDSM umbrella

BDSM is a fine umbrella term…but maybe it overreaches? Read more at:

A Little’s Submission

     What is the first thing that comes to mind when you see those 4 letters? If you are in the LS it’s most likely excitement and will probably branch out from there.

     BDSM stands for

B- Bondage

D- Discipline/Domination

S- Submission/Sadism

M- Masochism

As said best by the Merriam-Webster dictionary: a sexual activity involving such practices as the use of physical restraints, the granting and relinquishing of control and the infliction of pain. BDSM refers to a range of sexual preferences that generally relate to enjoyment of physical control, psychological control and/or pain. It can be broken down into six overarching components: bondage and discipline, domination and submission and sadism and masochism. Bondage and disciple consists of using physical or psychologic restraints, domination and submission involve an exchange of power and control and sadism and masochism refer to taking pleasure in others’ or one’s own pain…

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