Draft it up #SensualSunday @AuthorMoira

Write freely for your first draft…but get another person to edit…

Moira here welcoming you to another edition of #SensualSunday. Today we’re going to take things back to the beginning, to set the record straight, and to get you new authors out of your heads…

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Cruel fate chosen

How a chastity device…serves to remind one of their submission

S.R. Taylor

​Bound by cruel steel fate

A forever lock

You remember the time and date

That she took your cock
Perhaps took is the wrong word

You gave it willingly

And as you did your manhood

It may sound absurd

When she lovingly

Reminds you of your sissy hood
Your little sissy clit gets hard in its cage

Or as hard as it can

She’d let you have your way if you were a man

But your not your body hairless like a boy not of age
She reminds you a man chooses

While a slave obeys

But freewill is not all a sissy slave loses

How long before she bends you over

How many months or even days

Until she makes you her little sissy lover
You can never go back

You wouldn’t even if you could

For this role is you

You always knew

It was courage you lack

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Cuckolding vs. Femdom

How cuckolding is not necessarily a submissive’s femdom fetish…but the woman’s greatest pleasure that comes from seeing & knowing how turned on she is while making her man watch

Cream of the Planet

Cuckolding and Femdom are not the same sexual kink. While they often co-exist in male fantasies, wanting to experience one doesn’t mean you want to experience the other.

Neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam analyzed one billion sex-related search terms for their 2012 book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts. They found that cuckold-related searches rank #2 among most searched for sexual content on the internet. Despite the popularity of cuckolding, I believe there is a pervasive misperception about the nature of cuckolding.

Where does this confusion come from? In pornography and erotic literature, the cuckold is commonly portrayed as weak, submissive, and powerless. We are frequently left with an impression of the cuckold as a pathetic man forced to endure high levels of humiliation and infidelity against his will. He is characterized, frankly, as an undesirable man unworthy of having a lover. While some men do find this type of behavior…

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Embracing My Inner Fetishist

How some disguise a fetish as kink…may not be necessary as the taboo recedes

Goddess Hazelnut Latte


About a year ago, I wrote a blog post discussing the start of my BDSM journey.  At the time, I was reluctant to use the word ‘fetish’ due to all the stigma surrounding it.  Instead, I referred to a specific like as a ‘kink’.  While there is a clear difference between the two terms, ‘kink’ is often (and incorrectly) used to denote a ‘fetish’, in order to make it seem socially acceptable. 

Let’s first provide some official definitions.  A kink is an activity (with an erotic intent) that moves beyond what is considered socially ‘normal’.  A fetish on the other hand, is a fixation with a particular practice, object, idea that drives (sexual) pleasure.

To generalize further, a kink is determined by social norms and definitions.  A fetish on the other hand, is a personal concept and driven by our individual preferences.  To…

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How working hard at your job…doesn’t work out right!

The thing about conventional jobs is that usually there’s a boss you have to work pretty closely with and usually that boss will have some kind of terrible personality quirk. Maybe they can’t admit when they’re wrong. Maybe they tell you to do a thing and then decide they want the opposite thing instead and somehow it’s […]

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Ask a Kinky Girl, Part 2 – Would you ever ‘go back’ to being vanilla?

Once you’ve been in a #bdsm relationship…there’s no turning back (to vanilla)

Slap Ass For Motivation

Well, hi there. Welcome to Kinky Wednesday. *pretending shamelessly that I’m not one day late with this post* And as I stated in ‘Ask a Kinky Girl, part 1‘, I would do these if I have nothing planned for that week. Can’t leave the kinky stuff out, right? 😛 So here’s five randomly picked questions I found online and made them kinky. 😀

What is the sexiest mainstream movie you’ve seen?

I have to admit, I haven’t watched that many mainstream movies about BDSM. For the exact same reason I don’t watch BDSM porn, they are mostly very inaccurate about the lifestyle. But there is one that I actually really like: Secretary. I adore Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader is the original Mr Grey. Of course, even as the fan of the movie, BDSM should be sane and not everything is sane in this movie. Like this…

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Writing Assignment # 2 – What My Collar Means

How a collar is a reminder…of the commitment to one’s Dom

Collars, Cuffs and Wedding Bands

In BDSM literature, the pinnacle of a Dom/sub relationship is the collaring of the submissive. Some Doms have more than one collared submissive at a time. But all in all, it is a symbol of the submissive’s commitment to serving to THAT Dom, and the Dom’s commitment to care for and treasure the submissive’s service and trust in them.

There are many types of collars in many different materials: leather, lace, stainless steal, pearls, etc. And in certain communities different collars can mean different things. For some examples and explanations, I found this website very helpful.

I was immediately drawn to the idea of collars. I wanted a symbol of my commitment to Master as his submissive. I wanted something he could look at any time of day or night and think of our connection. If I’m sitting on the couch reading or writing, if I’m snuggling our kids, if…

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