Reddit Inspired: Munches … Why Do We Go?

How munches build bdsm communities… despite attacks from trolls who continue to stigmatize people who are into kink…

I really hope I’m preaching to the choir with this blog post, but just in case someone with no knowledge of the social side of BDSM stumbles onto my blog, I’m going to write this so it’s here for them to find.

This is another Reddit inspired blog post, I think now that I’ve deleted all the rubbish subreddits, so that my front page is entirely relevant to me you’ll be getting a lot more of these. So there I was perusing Reddit, when someone asked advice about their first munch. I send a well thought out reply, with all my top thoughts, and when I return later I see the following comment:

Munches … ‘Why do people do this? I don’t need to flag my sexuality and discuss it with other outcasts.’

Now don’t get me wrong, I am a big fan of don’t feed the trolls. I think…

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#MasturbationMonday: All It Takes Is The Right Toy …

How teasing and tormenting a desperate slave…can be an exciting turnon for a dominant!

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I’ve got the sex toys. I’ve got the porn, or the sexy imagination depending on my mood. The mood is set, the lube is out. I’ve got everything, except the orgasm. It’s time to admit defeat. I’m bored and I know the reason why. I’ve got a better toy, a bigger toy, a living, breathing, all mine sex toy of a boy. That is what I need.

There is only one problem with this need. He has been very naughty lately, and that has me questioning how much he deserves to give me the attention I need. I think on this for a while, but it can’t be denied, the more I think about him, the wetter I get, in some way, shape or form, I need…

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You can come for me…if you discover my name!

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The cane raises stripes…our passion!

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What Does Submission Mean To You?

How is a slave different from a sub? By their degree of sacrifice…

Submissive Stella

Does a submissive have certain behaviors? Do submissives do specific tasks?

No behaviors/tasks are set by the Dom. Some subs share certain traits; quietness, being reserved, overly apologizing, or avoiding eye contact. This is not an exhaustive list nor is it true of all subs. Stella for example kicks ass and takes names at work, literally doing the jobs of three people, yet she is also quiet and reserved. No two people are alike, so they will never have the same behaviors, and subs are people too. 😉 When it comes to tasks again no two Doms are alike and no two will want things done the same way.

Here is where I think the sub questions are off point, because subs are a diverse group. The 6’4″ guy I would not want to face in a fight can be, and some of them are, as sub as a petite…

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I’m submissive… but not to anyone… you’ll have to earn it!

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The Adventures of Domme Kitten

can a submissive be a domme for a day…the adventure into sexual sadism

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I felt excited. It all began with Sir Sade’s suggestion for kitten to go play with Princess Cinder with the strap on. And your favorite mischievous kitten got a great idea right away! How about me being a Domme for one session? I made a written proposal for Sir Sade, indicating that Domme Kitten wanted full control for the time until Sir Sade came home, and Domme Kitten wanted full control over the orgasm system. I planned for spanking, strap on action, glass dildo and butt plug action among other things. My proposal was approved, with the condition that I needed to record the whole thing for Sir Sade to watch later.

I felt nervous. On the day of the session, I was so freaking nervous. In the morning I put on a different kind of make-up than I usually do for sessions. I drew my brows with sharper angles…

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