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Monthly Archives: March 2022
Going Solo when your partner isn’t on board with it – an example
Once many get a taste of poly, there’s no going back to mono Continue reading
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Joke’s on Me
What do you do when you’re hot for a guy but you’re poly and he’s not into it
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Is Solo Polyamory just a variation of Friends with Benefits?
someone in a relationship will have a friend with benefits…because the person is quite emotionally satisfied in the main relationship but finds sexual satisfaction with the other person Continue reading
Why do men gets distant after having sex on the first date? — Adriana Jenelle
How to deal with a guy’s withdrawal after sex…don’t wait by the phone or appear to be needy This is because men tend to pull away after sex. During sex, Oxytocin increases, which has the effect of lowering testosterone. When a … Continue reading
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We Can Build On It.
Originally posted on Socially Acceptable Imaginary Friends:
Notes; I’m not sure how I feel about this one. It began life as one long and unweildy story, now it’s two shorter ones. There were also big chunks that I simply deleted,…
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Dating is Hard
Originally posted on The Adventures of the Poly Wifey:
Ahhhhhhhhhh! I hate adult dating. After years of being out of the dating loop, I realized I was rusty. Do I still know how to flirt? Better question: was I good…
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Tim Ferriss and Matt Mullenweg Get Personal in Antarctica (#578) — The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss
learn more about the owner of WordPress here: Illustration via 99designs“I think doing the right thing for the wrong reason is still the right thing.”— Matt Mullenweg Matt Mullenweg (@photomatt) is a co-founder of the open-source publishing platform WordPress, which now powers more … Continue reading
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Solo-polyamory explained again
for people who don’t need relationship security and don’t want to ride the relationship escalator It’s useful to cultivate secondary poly relationships. When your primaries leave you, you still have your secondaries. As a solo poly, you can still practice … Continue reading
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ENM Truth and Honesty — Diary of an ordinary woman’s affairs
Is it tempting to stray from ethical behavior in an ENM relationship, particularly with respect to STI’s When someone strips away your agency over self and your autonomy for personal gain, the results are a deep hurt because there was … Continue reading
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Common Misconceptions and Stereotypes — A Life With Many Loves
Is Polyamory just for selfish cheaters? Welcome back! I wanted to highlight a topic I’ve been thinking a lot about, which are common stereotypes and misconceptions that people have about polyamory. It is so interesting how when you become part … Continue reading
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