Tag Archives: relationships

Should guys come out as submissives?

You might as well live out your fantasies and not be ashamed of it…So many problems would fall away if submissiveness was treated as a sexuality Continue reading

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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Going Bi in Polyamory

polyamory presents the opportunities for both men and women to explore bisexual activities. Continue reading

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Going Solo when your partner isn’t on board with it – an example

Once many get a taste of poly, there’s no going back to mono Continue reading

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Can you have love in BDSM?

BDSM is often a form of play to keep desire flowing Continue reading

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Adventures in cougaring

Originally posted on hiding in plain sight:
I would like to fall madly in love with someone new. I am increasingly realizing that this will necessitate the person being around my age, or at least like 35 (I’m 45). Even…

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3 – First Spanking

a therapeutic spanking never hurts!  Continue reading

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A bi-guys guide to finding a date: the oral test

women said that after dating a bi man, they could never go back to dating a straight man Continue reading

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Women who like bi-guys…and why

bisexual men may be encouraged to hear that there’s a solid community of women who express wholehearted …adoration for them Continue reading

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How guys can get aroused when they’re not into their partner

Turning sex into something playful and imaginative can bring two people closer together Continue reading

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