Monthly Archives: October 2015

Open relationships post on How Do I Date

Originally posted on Elisabeth Sheff:
I am blogging for How Do I Date and I love the comic they chose for this new blog on how to be open about being in an open relationship. Check it out at http://howdoidate.com/relationships/how-to-open-up-about-being-in-an-open-relationship/

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Behaviourally Bisexual Women… A “Fashion Statement”?

can it be that the increasing popularity of bisexual behavior in the popular media (mostly music) is mostly behavioral and an example of “heteroflexibility” and a way to avoid bisexual emotional connection? Or does the behavior eventually lead to the … Continue reading

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Fuck.

Originally posted on hiding in plain sight:
Tonight is when The Pedant is (ostensibly?) coming over and making up for being too late to come by the other night. But he’s late again. ETA was originally “nineish.” At 8:30 or…

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Guest Blogger Emmanuelle de Maupassant Defines the Erotic Edge

Originally posted on f dot leonora:
I am very pleased to have Emmanuelle de Maupassant as my guest today. She is a true connoisseur of the erotic genre, and is not afraid to explore its dark side. It seemed only appropriate on…

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Is submission Love?

In a relationship that has complete D/s, is #submission “tethered to their love”?

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The End of the Experiment

Originally posted on stonehooper:
Tonight my Ex and I, who were attempting a Polyamorous relationship, broke up. She broke up with me, but it was mutual in that I, too, knew it was for the best. No, it isn’t what…

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Be Careful What You Wish For

some thoughts on going after someone you think might be really into you

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My next read

Originally posted on PolyInVt:
This looks interesting-  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tim-ward/torn-between-two-lovers-t_b_7566688.html.  I like the “evolution of consciousness” part of the title. I will read and reflect on it here soon. Metamour was here this past weekend and it was our first chance to “process”…

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Guilty As Charged, Being Poly While Trans

the difficulties of finding someone who is inclined to be in a lesbian, poly situation with a trans woman & the downsides to having a #poly relationship: #comingOut to all partners detailed here http://bit.ly/1LB5loZ

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#778: The crimson flags of unsolicited reassurances.

Originally posted on CaptainAwkward.com:
Dear Captain Awkward, I’m currently over 2 years into a poly relationship with a wonderful person. Our policy is that we’re both free to have casual sex, and we’ll treat dating people on a case…

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