Monthly Archives: November 2018

How her mind rejects the pain but her pussy is aroused by a spanking

Originally posted on phoems thoughts about life:
I am on a path of self-discovery and I am evolving. That is not an easy thing to do. I am more than 40 years old so it is time, but I don’t…

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Which One Are You?

Originally posted on Mugilan Raju:
Some will push me higher, while others will drag me down. Some will soar with my thoughts, while others will crawl with my shadows. Some will fill me up, pouring pieces of their own soul…

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How BDSM can save a marriage

Originally posted on Love Is A Paraphilia:
This has been the sexiest year of my life. Of course, 2011, when I met my partner was a seriously hot one but it wasn’t nearly as deep and intimate as the experiences…

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How a domminant communicates to her submissive to reinforce her dominance

Originally posted on Mistress Scarlet's Blog:
It is useful, as often as possible when it’s just the two of you, even in vanilla times, to issue a curt instruction instead of a polite request . It will keep him subjugated to you…

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Why do people have fantasies of Watersports in BDSM?

Originally posted on Slap Ass For Motivation:
If you are interested, here’s part 1 from over three years ago when I was still with Sir Sade, my second Dom. After him, with Atticus (my 3rd and last Dom), watersports was less…

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Church is the floor she kneels on (Part 2)

Originally posted on Love Is A Paraphilia:
A much-ballyhooed 2013 study conducted at Tilburg University claimed people in BDSM relationships have “higher subjective well‐being” than those who identified as vanilla. Journalists and kinky people around the world soon began citing…

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Can you have love in BDSM?

BDSM is often a form of play to keep desire flowing Continue reading

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Topping From the Bottom

a situation where a submissive attempts to control the play, the dynamic or the relationship from their submissive position using seduction #toppingBottom Continue reading

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Can BDSM be good for your mind?

BDSM participants enjoy the experience of getting away from their day-to-day concerns & attending to things that really matter Continue reading

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