Author Archives: dave94015

About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's

The story of the Determined Dominatrix

Posted on February 25, 2023 by dave94015

Originally posted on J R Vincente:
Hello readers! I am back! What does back mean? Back means that I am committing (again) to keep this blog going, and doing more than Insecure Writer’s Support Group and TMI Tuesday. Don’t worry,…

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Acceptance by Jayden

Posted on February 13, 2023 by dave94015

Originally posted on J R Vincente:
Each month, Richard and I are going to journal about a different word, inspired by Marquessa Matthews. This month is Acceptance. Acceptance I have struggled with acceptance of who I am my entire life.…

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Size does matter for guys

Posted on August 28, 2022 by dave94015

while a guy’s size does matter especially to other guys, ladies are looking for the total package Continue reading →

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A couple’s seaside vacation

Posted on August 8, 2022 by dave94015

she becomes aroused by hearing his reaction to her administration of pain. “The more pleasure you provide, the more pain your partner will be able to take. You can use this to your advantage to increase your partner’s…tolerance to pain and even to condition yourself to enjoy it.” #bdsm #femdom Continue reading →

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Are guys motivated by their libido? – the erotica premise

Posted on August 1, 2022 by dave94015

erotic catharsis happens, his mind is cleared of doubts. If he repeats this experience many times with her, will he commit and continue to live with her? Continue reading →

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Why guys should wear underwear

Posted on July 25, 2022 by dave94015

No matter how hot you are, you could offend your partner if you come to the party with no drawers. Continue reading →

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Monogamy: A lost foundation for intimacy

Posted on July 18, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on The Journey of A Man in Search of Self and Belonging (but open to any other shit he might find along the way)!:
“Don’t knock it until you have tried it.” This phrase can be a double-edged sword. Here…

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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Safer Oral Sex for women

Posted on May 15, 2022 by dave94015

With the rapid spread of HPV and other STI’s through oral sex, there’s some protection available. Underwear by Lorals has been cleared by the FDA. look for “Lorals for Protection”. a 4-pack is about $25 sold on their website or … Continue reading →

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