Author Archives: dave94015

About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - late 20's

How we live D/s 24/7

Originally posted on The Rantings of a Nonsensical Mind:
I came across this question today and thought it could use some addressing. “How is it possible to live a 24/7 lifestyle? You can’t submit 24 hours a day, it just…

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What is a soft FLR – a guy’s practical guide

Few wives can imagine how different their sex life becomes when they assume a position of dominance in the marriage. Continue reading

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what’s the difference between a FLR and a femdom relationship – a practical guide for guys

Men want to be emotionally and sexually mesmerized by a woman. Continue reading

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Switches can’t be Dominant.

Originally posted on Clio's musings:
Do you like my clickbait as fuck title? 😉 I utterly disagree with the subject. Switches can be Dominant, and some of the best Dominants I have ever encountered have been switches. I’ve received…

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Why do people like bondage?

Originally posted on Just A Sub: Learning and Adventures:
So recently I’ve been slightly obsessed with the idea of being tied up. My Master and I have discussed it and are both interested in doing this. Being that I’m fairly…

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Can BDSM restore intimacy after trauma?

Originally posted on Simply, La Mia Vita:
“I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.” — Carl Jung In many ways, what happened to me has made me stronger. I have learned that my…

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What a domme really wants from a submissive guy and what he can do to build a romantic relationship…

Many women aspire to dominate their men Continue reading

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