Category Archives: femdom

A couple’s seaside vacation

she becomes aroused by hearing his reaction to her administration of pain. “The more pleasure you provide, the more pain your partner will be able to take. You can use this to your advantage to increase your partner’s…tolerance to pain and even to condition yourself to enjoy it.” #bdsm #femdom Continue reading

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Are guys motivated by their libido? – the erotica premise

erotic catharsis happens, his mind is cleared of doubts. If he repeats this experience many times with her, will he commit and continue to live with her? Continue reading

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

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Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

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You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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Is the BDSM community stodgy? How to loosen up

Women who bottom…might switch to a top role depending on the partner Continue reading

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The Femdom Mystique: Does Reality Make the Myth or does the Myth Make the Reality?

As much as a submissive male needs a dominant woman to submit to, the dominant woman looks for a submissive male to serve and obey her and provide her with the opportunity to lead him through dominance. Continue reading

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playing Femdom

When she stands up to me and shows no fear or of being intimidated by me, that is very exciting, Even compelled by some need to submit the her. Continue reading

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The Femdom Wedding Vow

the submissive male wants his female partner to commit to placing his desires and needs above her own. In return he will do whatever he can to serve and please her as she likes Continue reading

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Can a femdom marriage succeed?

There are women who are naturally dominant Continue reading

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Can the Kink scene be improved?

I wish that clientele/submissives would realize that Dominants are more versatile human beings than what’s in their fantasies…We have moments of emotional drops. We are more than just kinky service providers. Continue reading

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