Monthly Archives: August 2018

How guys can get aroused when they’re not into their partner

Turning sex into something playful and imaginative can bring two people closer together Continue reading

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Spanking: Discipline or pleasure, and how to manage both. (Part one)

Originally posted on Musings of a Chaotic Mind:
This topic was suggested to me by my bossy people and I struggled a little with how to start it, but I think I have a handle on it now. It’s going…

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Some insights into how to administer spanking for pleasure or punishment

One of the most widespread uses of spanking is as a tool for putting the sub into what is commonly called “sub-space.” Continue reading

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Femdom vs. FLR – which is better for you?

The FLR relationship has a implied or explicit contract. Although some guys would consider it, they prefer to test how a FLR feels before they suggest it to their partner. Continue reading

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How everyday life suppressed her kinky urges for years…and how she returned to kink…. Discovering kink (Days 3 & 4 of 30 Days of Kink)

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The essence of femdom

My Hell is very bearable and My Demons know how to take the reins with equity. Your Brand is My Essence and is imprinted forever in the souls that you possess. Continue reading

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Why I don’t want women to become ‘equal to men’

Written by Jessica Eaton 04 August 2018 ? We need to stop saying that women want to be equal to men – or that we are striving for women to be seen as the ‘same as men in society’. ?…

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