Category Archives: submission

The Femdom Mystique: Does Reality Make the Myth or does the Myth Make the Reality?

Posted on February 27, 2020 by dave94015

As much as a submissive male needs a dominant woman to submit to, the dominant woman looks for a submissive male to serve and obey her and provide her with the opportunity to lead him through dominance. Continue reading →

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playing Femdom

Posted on November 1, 2019 by dave94015

When she stands up to me and shows no fear or of being intimidated by me, that is very exciting, Even compelled by some need to submit the her. Continue reading →

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Can the Kink scene be improved?

Posted on March 13, 2019 by dave94015

I wish that clientele/submissives would realize that Dominants are more versatile human beings than what’s in their fantasies…We have moments of emotional drops. We are more than just kinky service providers. Continue reading →

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Humiliation & Degradation in BDSM

Posted on February 25, 2019 by dave94015

humiliation can cause significant emotional damage to the bottom or
it can create a deeper trust between top and bottom Continue reading →

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FemDom for the NextGen – a look at a ‘vulnerable’ ProDomme

Posted on January 21, 2019 by dave94015

The more vulnerability I showed, the more that seemed to resonate with people. Continue reading →

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What a domme really wants from a submissive guy and what he can do to build a romantic relationship…

Posted on January 4, 2019 by dave94015

Many women aspire to dominate their men Continue reading →

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Can a submissive show his emotions during a bdsm session – or should he suppress them in the ‘man-box’?

Posted on December 26, 2018 by dave94015

A real man is strong and stoic. He doesn’t show emotions other than anger and excitement. Continue reading →

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How do I get my wife/girlfriend to dominate me?

Posted on December 16, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Visit Talithia:
Diane is a yoga instructor and Dominatrix who has previously written about the benefits of yoga for submissives. She writes here in response to a question from a male submissive about that post. In Part…

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How a submissive guy can make the first moves with a dominant

Posted on December 16, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Visit Talithia:
Alyssa Webber fell into a dominant role and was reluctant at first to raise her hand to a slave. SPOILER ALERT she got over it. Here she presents some thoughts on what is holding you back…

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Domestic Service: Scene versus Reality

Posted on December 14, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
Many a time when I have mentioned to someone (that someone usually being a potential sub) that I live in a 24/7 dynamic, the conversation has invariably gone something like this: ‘Oh, you have a…

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