Tag Archives: lifestyle

Should guys come out as submissives?

Posted on May 4, 2023 by dave94015

You might as well live out your fantasies and not be ashamed of it…So many problems would fall away if submissiveness was treated as a sexuality Continue reading →

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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The Femdom Mystique: Does Reality Make the Myth or does the Myth Make the Reality?

Posted on February 27, 2020 by dave94015

As much as a submissive male needs a dominant woman to submit to, the dominant woman looks for a submissive male to serve and obey her and provide her with the opportunity to lead him through dominance. Continue reading →

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Women who like bi-guys…and why

Posted on September 3, 2018 by dave94015

bisexual men may be encouraged to hear that there’s a solid community of women who express wholehearted …adoration for them Continue reading →

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Femdom vs. FLR – which is better for you?

Posted on August 28, 2018 by dave94015

The FLR relationship has a implied or explicit contract. Although some guys would consider it, they prefer to test how a FLR feels before they suggest it to their partner. Continue reading →

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The essence of femdom

Posted on August 27, 2018 by dave94015

My Hell is very bearable and My Demons know how to take the reins with equity. Your Brand is My Essence and is imprinted forever in the souls that you possess. Continue reading →

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Kink vs. BDSM – The light and Dark Side

Posted on August 24, 2018 by dave94015

Often one person in a relationship wants & needs dark BDSM & the other partner is reluctant or has no knowledge or experience on how to handle the situation, are afraid to disrupt the relationship equilibrium
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D/s vs. BDSM, lifestyle vs. bedroom kink

Posted on August 21, 2018 by dave94015

Some people want to but don’t know how to transition from bedroom bdsm to lifestyle Continue reading →

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The submissive Mantra – an example

Posted on August 1, 2018 by dave94015

A submissive can create a mantra to use periodically to reinforce his commitment to his dominant. Here is a link to a female’s mantra to her dominant… via The submissive Mantra

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