Category Archives: bdsm-play

The story of the Determined Dominatrix

Posted on February 25, 2023 by dave94015

Originally posted on J R Vincente:
Hello readers! I am back! What does back mean? Back means that I am committing (again) to keep this blog going, and doing more than Insecure Writer’s Support Group and TMI Tuesday. Don’t worry,…

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Why do some dommes wear fetish clothing?

Posted on January 21, 2019 by dave94015

Submissive guys are attracted and afraid of women in fetish outfits Continue reading →

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A new toy?

Posted on December 24, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Miss D:
Remember mutt? The subby boy I topped at the Christmas party? Well Daddy said I can have him as a play partner if I want. When he told me, it felt like he was giving…

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Just A Little Expectation

Posted on December 13, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
Everyone has unrealistic expectations of any dynamic (and any relationship for that matter), when it only exists in fantasy. The moment it begins in practice, we are inevitably disappointed, because reality can never precisely match…

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Why do people have fantasies of Watersports in BDSM?

Posted on November 22, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slap Ass For Motivation:
If you are interested, here’s part 1 from over three years ago when I was still with Sir Sade, my second Dom. After him, with Atticus (my 3rd and last Dom), watersports was less…

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Can you have love in BDSM?

Posted on November 14, 2018 by dave94015

BDSM is often a form of play to keep desire flowing Continue reading →

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Topping From the Bottom

Posted on November 6, 2018 by dave94015

a situation where a submissive attempts to control the play, the dynamic or the relationship from their submissive position using seduction #toppingBottom Continue reading →

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Can BDSM be good for your mind?

Posted on November 5, 2018 by dave94015

BDSM participants enjoy the experience of getting away from their day-to-day concerns & attending to things that really matter Continue reading →

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His first encounter with a porn star dominatrix…was mind altering

Posted on October 5, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on More than whips and chains:
The following is an excerpt from More than whips and chains (the book I have been writing for ages) and chronicles my first visit to see a professional Dominatrix.  It was 18…

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Dirty-talk that sub guys use to enhance their session with their dominant

Posted on September 1, 2018 by dave94015

A sub’s cries, moans and whimpers conveys what he is feeling while his dominant works him over Continue reading →

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