Category Archives: bdsm-play

Why do people have fantasies of Watersports in BDSM?

Originally posted on Slap Ass For Motivation:
If you are interested, here’s part 1 from over three years ago when I was still with Sir Sade, my second Dom. After him, with Atticus (my 3rd and last Dom), watersports was less…

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Can you have love in BDSM?

BDSM is often a form of play to keep desire flowing Continue reading

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Topping From the Bottom

Originally posted on Love Letters to a Unicorn:
I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up often in sub group discussions?…

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Can BDSM be good for your mind?

BDSM participants enjoy the experience of getting away from their day-to-day concerns & attending to things that really matter Continue reading

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His first encounter with a porn star dominatrix…was mind altering

Originally posted on More than whips and chains:
The following is an excerpt from More than whips and chains (the book I have been writing for ages) and chronicles my first visit to see a professional Dominatrix.  It was 18…

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Dirty-talk that sub guys use to enhance their session with their dominant

A sub’s cries, moans and whimpers conveys what he is feeling while his dominant works him over Continue reading

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How guys can get aroused when they’re not into their partner

Turning sex into something playful and imaginative can bring two people closer together Continue reading

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