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Monthly Archives: June 2016
As Real As It Gets
Originally posted on sexscribbler:
“Wanna come home with me?” I say to her. “Sure,” she says, grinning. She’s tipsy, and so am I. We’re more than a little bit giddy. I’m not the kind of guy who brings a girl…
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How We Hold Space in BDSM
How we hold space for others while in public #bdsm play…to share with them and beyond
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Pain as a punisment
How manipulating your partner’s subspace can change funishment into punishment
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Thirty Days of Kink – Day 6 –
Originally posted on With Peppermint on Top:
– Day Six – Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Well, my weirdest ones, in my view, are some of the more extreme consensual non-consent scenarios trotting through my mind at any given…
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Thirty Days of Kink – Day 7 –
Originally posted on With Peppermint on Top:
– Day Seven – What’s your favorite toy? Peh! This one’s easy!!! Not… To be honest, I don’t know. I want to say my Hitachi Magic Wand is my favourite toy, but that would…
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Should you – could you – crowdfund your next book? Unbound uncovered
Originally posted on Nail Your Novel:
We’re in an age of new publishing models. And two of the emerging trends – crowdfunding and hybrid publishing – seem to meet in the organisation Unbound. The principle of Unbound is simple. Raise…
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Something I can work with
How disagreements in a relationship differ in a vanilla one and a #bdsm one
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My Take – Religion, Politics and BDSM
are all religious people at odds with the #glbt & #bdsm community?…maybe not!
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Grrrrrr
Originally posted on hiding in plain sight:
I don’t wanna get bogged down in a whole lot of detail and end up typing all night but I do want to vent so let me just say: during The Pedant’s visit I…
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