Monthly Archives: June 2016

As Real As It Gets

Originally posted on sexscribbler:
“Wanna come home with me?” I say to her. “Sure,” she says, grinning. She’s tipsy, and so am I. We’re more than a little bit giddy. I’m not the kind of guy who brings a girl…

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How We Hold Space in BDSM

How we hold space for others while in public #bdsm play…to share with them and beyond Darkly Dezire Earlier this week I read This Article  about holding space which inspired me to write about some recent experiences that really made me aware … Continue reading

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Pain as a punisment

Originally posted on Domina Jen:
So I recently reconnected with an ex (we’ll call him Beck) after he reached out, asking about my views on love.  Since then, we’ve talked about a lot, but he did bring up an interesting point.…

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Thirty Days of Kink – Day 6 –

Originally posted on With Peppermint on Top:
– Day Six – Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Well, my weirdest ones, in my view, are some of the more extreme consensual non-consent scenarios trotting through my mind at any given…

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Thirty Days of Kink – Day 7 –

Originally posted on With Peppermint on Top:
– Day Seven – What’s your favorite toy? Peh! This one’s easy!!! Not… To be honest, I don’t know. I want to say my Hitachi Magic Wand is my favourite toy, but that would…

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Should you – could you – crowdfund your next book? Unbound uncovered

Originally posted on Nail Your Novel:
We’re in an age of new publishing models. And two of the emerging trends – crowdfunding and hybrid publishing – seem to meet in the organisation Unbound. The principle of Unbound is simple. Raise…

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Something I can work with

Originally posted on Domina Jen:
There is a commenter on my punishment post who had some questions regarding my stance and the tone with which I answered the question asked. I initially agreed with the original post, was interested in the…

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