Category Archives: relationships

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Are guys motivated by their libido? – the erotica premise

erotic catharsis happens, his mind is cleared of doubts. If he repeats this experience many times with her, will he commit and continue to live with her? Continue reading

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Monogamy: A lost foundation for intimacy

Originally posted on The Journey of A Man in Search of Self and Belonging (but open to any other shit he might find along the way)!:
“Don’t knock it until you have tried it.” This phrase can be a double-edged sword. Here…

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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Going Bi in Polyamory

polyamory presents the opportunities for both men and women to explore bisexual activities. Continue reading

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Going Solo when your partner isn’t on board with it – an example

Once many get a taste of poly, there’s no going back to mono Continue reading

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Is Solo Polyamory just a variation of Friends with Benefits?

someone in a relationship will have a friend with benefits…because the person is quite emotionally satisfied in the main relationship but finds sexual satisfaction with the other person Continue reading

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Is the BDSM community stodgy? How to loosen up

Women who bottom…might switch to a top role depending on the partner Continue reading

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Why do guys lose interest?

Most guys can intuitively sense when a woman is reacting to them as an object Continue reading

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Suffer in Silence

l it just comes down to the way I unconsciously, and sometimes even consciously, compare myself to others and this overwhelming feeling of not being enough for anyone Continue reading

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