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Can a femdom marriage succeed?

There are women who are naturally dominant Continue reading

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Should a sub guy treat a dominant woman like she is on a pedestal? How guys don’t get a date with a domme.

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
‘You’re not like other Dommes’ is something I have heard many times, a sentiment which usually has been prompted by my having completely normal, polite conversation with a prospective submissive. This is not a surprise,…

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How BDSM can save a marriage

Originally posted on Love Is A Paraphilia:
This has been the sexiest year of my life. Of course, 2011, when I met my partner was a seriously hot one but it wasn’t nearly as deep and intimate as the experiences…

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Femdom vs. FLR – which is better for you?

The FLR relationship has a implied or explicit contract. Although some guys would consider it, they prefer to test how a FLR feels before they suggest it to their partner. Continue reading

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Kink vs. BDSM – The light and Dark Side

Often one person in a relationship wants & needs dark BDSM & the other partner is reluctant or has no knowledge or experience on how to handle the situation, are afraid to disrupt the relationship equilibrium
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D/s vs. BDSM, lifestyle vs. bedroom kink

Some people want to but don’t know how to transition from bedroom bdsm to lifestyle Continue reading

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How to maintain a #bdsm relationship when you can’t be with the one you dominate (or submit to)

I want you to put on a pair of sexy underwear tonight before I order you to take it off Continue reading

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The submissive Mantra – an example

A submissive can create a mantra to use periodically to reinforce his commitment to his dominant. Here is a link to a female’s mantra to her dominant… via The submissive Mantra

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How To Be A Dominant Woman!

Communicate with your prospective submissive what you want in the relationship Continue reading

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aftercare in femdom & maledom play

If you switch during a #bdsm session, it’s not always clear about who should be giving aftercare to who. I looked into the question and found there’s no simple answer. The aftercare a dominant guy gives to a submissive female … Continue reading

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