Category Archives: dating

Are guys motivated by their libido? – the erotica premise

erotic catharsis happens, his mind is cleared of doubts. If he repeats this experience many times with her, will he commit and continue to live with her? Continue reading

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Going Solo when your partner isn’t on board with it – an example

Once many get a taste of poly, there’s no going back to mono Continue reading

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Should Guys Strip?

I didn’t really have the personality to be a male entertainer at the start so I had to kind of create a persona that was more of an entertainer Continue reading

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Why do guys lose interest?

Most guys can intuitively sense when a woman is reacting to them as an object Continue reading

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playing Femdom

When she stands up to me and shows no fear or of being intimidated by me, that is very exciting, Even compelled by some need to submit the her. Continue reading

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Guys Winter Nights

a guy…might consider the opportunities of longer nights Continue reading

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BDSM Dating

Flr and femdom is a relationship…if it is normal for a man to be in charge in a relationship, it is also normal for a woman to be in charge Continue reading

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How to get a date with someone with bdsm interests

dating sites for kink are similar to vanilla ones Continue reading

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How a submissive guy can make the first moves with a dominant

Originally posted on Visit Talithia:
Alyssa Webber fell into a dominant role and was reluctant at first to raise her hand to a slave. SPOILER ALERT she got over it. Here she presents some thoughts on what is holding you back…

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Should a sub guy treat a dominant woman like she is on a pedestal? How guys don’t get a date with a domme.

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
‘You’re not like other Dommes’ is something I have heard many times, a sentiment which usually has been prompted by my having completely normal, polite conversation with a prospective submissive. This is not a surprise,…

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