Tag Archives: bdsm

Are guys motivated by their libido? – the erotica premise

erotic catharsis happens, his mind is cleared of doubts. If he repeats this experience many times with her, will he commit and continue to live with her? Continue reading

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

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Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

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You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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Femdom Games

Why do people get into femdom or bdsm relationships and why do they abandon them? Does love bring them together and eventually separate them? or does love have anything to do with the relationship? If you separate femdom relationship activity … Continue reading

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Can the Kink scene be improved?

I wish that clientele/submissives would realize that Dominants are more versatile human beings than what’s in their fantasies…We have moments of emotional drops. We are more than just kinky service providers. Continue reading

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Humiliation & Degradation in BDSM

humiliation can cause significant emotional damage to the bottom or
it can create a deeper trust between top and bottom Continue reading

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BDSM Dating

Flr and femdom is a relationship…if it is normal for a man to be in charge in a relationship, it is also normal for a woman to be in charge Continue reading

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BDSM Bondage

Bondage is used by a dominatrix to get her partner to focus on his submission to her Continue reading

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Sensual Femdom – a guide for guys

sensual dominance requires a greater understanding of a submissive’s turn-ons and state of mind Continue reading

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A personable domme

I think of myself as a lesbian who also loves her husband and the occasional cock  Continue reading

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