Tag Archives: bdsm

Should guys come out as submissives?

Posted on May 4, 2023 by dave94015

You might as well live out your fantasies and not be ashamed of it…So many problems would fall away if submissiveness was treated as a sexuality Continue reading →

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The story of the Determined Dominatrix

Posted on February 25, 2023 by dave94015

Originally posted on J R Vincente:
Hello readers! I am back! What does back mean? Back means that I am committing (again) to keep this blog going, and doing more than Insecure Writer’s Support Group and TMI Tuesday. Don’t worry,…

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Are guys motivated by their libido? – the erotica premise

Posted on August 1, 2022 by dave94015

erotic catharsis happens, his mind is cleared of doubts. If he repeats this experience many times with her, will he commit and continue to live with her? Continue reading →

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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Femdom Games

Posted on February 22, 2021 by dave94015

Why do people get into femdom or bdsm relationships and why do they abandon them? Does love bring them together and eventually separate them? or does love have anything to do with the relationship? If you separate femdom relationship activity … Continue reading →

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Can the Kink scene be improved?

Posted on March 13, 2019 by dave94015

I wish that clientele/submissives would realize that Dominants are more versatile human beings than what’s in their fantasies…We have moments of emotional drops. We are more than just kinky service providers. Continue reading →

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Humiliation & Degradation in BDSM

Posted on February 25, 2019 by dave94015

humiliation can cause significant emotional damage to the bottom or
it can create a deeper trust between top and bottom Continue reading →

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BDSM Dating

Posted on February 14, 2019 by dave94015

Flr and femdom is a relationship…if it is normal for a man to be in charge in a relationship, it is also normal for a woman to be in charge Continue reading →

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BDSM Bondage

Posted on February 4, 2019 by dave94015

Bondage is used by a dominatrix to get her partner to focus on his submission to her Continue reading →

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