Monthly Archives: April 2016

Calm The Fuck Down

sometimes one can overthink a relationship…and ignore the basics of why we’re attracted to our partner

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Dominant not domineering…#TuesdayThoughts with Doris (@MamaD8)

Originally posted on Naughty Quills:
Hello lovely peeps, Doris here with more of her Tuesday Thoughts on all things Domly this time, so gather close. I may or may not be ranting a little, too. You have been warned. This…

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Why Submission?

How #painPlay can make a sub feel more centered in a #bdsm scene Love Letters to a Unicorn I have been preparing to teach a class at subCON this weekend in NYC. The great thing about teaching any subject is … Continue reading

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Am I Doing this Right????

This post is about how there is no right or wrong way to do kink with your partner…and how your roles may change over time! Love Letters to a Unicorn Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, … Continue reading

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The Soft Option

Originally posted on Miranda Birch:
The Soft Option, Part One of White Collar Crime, Slave Collar Punishment, now available in Amazon Kindle. A young man caught defrauding his firm by his older female boss thinks he has chosen the soft option…

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Not Losing My Religion

Originally posted on adventuresinakinkyandscape:
Philip Larkin once wrote that, if called on to construct a religion, he would make use of water. When I construct a religion I will make use of kink. For the two have much in common…

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Control

How control can bring out one’s inner slut!

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How I “Raped” my Man

Originally posted on Discovering Myself:
Let me preface my story by saying, I have met a wonderful man who is Dominant by nature and practice.  I have not submitted to him yet. We’ve discussed it and decided to devlop our…

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Adela’s Adventure of BDSM: Fifty Shades and more…

Originally posted on London Multimedia News:
Flogging Demonstration at Folsom Street Fair 2004. Image: Pretzelpaws. Wikipedia Creative Commons. With the much anticipated release of Fifty Shades Darker, which will be in U.K cinemas from February 2017, I decided to see what…

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Labels are for jars, not people.

Originally posted on DragonflyLady's Writey Ramblings:
Right? I mean, some people like labels. They need labels. Want them. And I don’t mean labels on clothes, because that’s a whole other thing. I have a couple of friends who have…

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