Monthly Archives: April 2016

Calm The Fuck Down

sometimes one can overthink a relationship…and ignore the basics of why we’re attracted to our partner

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Dominant not domineering…#TuesdayThoughts with Doris (@MamaD8)

Originally posted on Naughty Quills:
Hello lovely peeps, Doris here with more of her Tuesday Thoughts on all things Domly this time, so gather close. I may or may not be ranting a little, too. You have been warned. This…

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Why Submission?

Originally posted on Love Letters to a Unicorn:
I have been preparing to teach a class at subCON this weekend in NYC. The great thing about teaching any subject is that you are forced to refine your thinking about what…

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Am I Doing this Right????

Originally posted on Love Letters to a Unicorn:
Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I am not sure I…

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The Soft Option

Originally posted on Miranda Birch:
The Soft Option, Part One of White Collar Crime, Slave Collar Punishment, now available in Amazon Kindle. A young man caught defrauding his firm by his older female boss thinks he has chosen the soft option…

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Not Losing My Religion

Originally posted on adventuresinakinkyandscape:
Philip Larkin once wrote that, if called on to construct a religion, he would make use of water. When I construct a religion I will make use of kink. For the two have much in common…

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Control

How control can bring out one’s inner slut!

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How I “Raped” my Man

Originally posted on Discovering Myself:
Let me preface my story by saying, I have met a wonderful man who is Dominant by nature and practice.  I have not submitted to him yet. We’ve discussed it and decided to devlop our…

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Adela’s Adventure of BDSM: Fifty Shades and more…

Originally posted on London Multimedia News:
Flogging Demonstration at Folsom Street Fair 2004. Image: Pretzelpaws. Wikipedia Creative Commons. With the much anticipated release of Fifty Shades Darker, which will be in U.K cinemas from February 2017, I decided to see what…

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Labels are for jars, not people.

Originally posted on DragonflyLady's Writey Ramblings:
Right? I mean, some people like labels. They need labels. Want them. And I don’t mean labels on clothes, because that’s a whole other thing. I have a couple of friends who have…

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