Monthly Archives: June 2017

What is BDSM?

For those curious / new to the scene: the fundamental definition of #bdsm, how it differs from abuse b/c #SSC

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3 things I’ve learned from writing

1. The process of writing means more to me than the finished product. I’ve gone back to reading several of my old works. Admittedly, some pieces are cringeworthy; others still resonate true today. This comes as no surprise, really. The…

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Fear play #1

Originally posted on Not Good With Words:
I had never come across the term fear play until K mentioned she had seen a performance demonstrating it. A guy ties a girl up, brings over a fire extinguisher and places it…

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Chastity Tips: When it Burns

Originally posted on Femdom Ramblings from a submissive male:
This year’s chastity experiments have taught me a lot about fit.  This is one of those frustrating topics because of the cost of devices and uncertainty about comfort for long-term wear.…

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No Wasted Ink Writer’s Links

Originally posted on No Wasted Ink:
As we come to the end of June and head into summertime, I once again bring you more writer’s links to ponder.  This week I was in a marketing mood and I selected several articles…

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You are allowed to write badly.

Originally posted on Pointing Telescopes | S. Noel Brady:
We’ve probably all heard the adage, “Give yourself permission to write crap,” but I want to talk about it because it’s such an important one. We must face the inevitability that not…

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Stop shaming Dominant Women who submit

can a dominant woman submit…and still be dominant?

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