Monthly Archives: June 2017

For those curious / new to the scene: the fundamental definition of #bdsm, how it differs from abuse b/c #SSC

1. The process of writing means more to me than the finished product. I’ve gone back to reading several of my old works. Admittedly, some pieces are cringeworthy; others still resonate true today. This comes as no surprise, really. The…

Originally posted on Not Good With Words:
I had never come across the term fear play until K mentioned she had seen a performance demonstrating it. A guy ties a girl up, brings over a fire extinguisher and places it…

Originally posted on Femdom Ramblings from a submissive male:
This year’s chastity experiments have taught me a lot about fit.  This is one of those frustrating topics because of the cost of devices and uncertainty about comfort for long-term wear.…

Originally posted on No Wasted Ink:
As we come to the end of June and head into summertime, I once again bring you more writer’s links to ponder.  This week I was in a marketing mood and I selected several articles…

Originally posted on Pointing Telescopes | S. Noel Brady:
We’ve probably all heard the adage, “Give yourself permission to write crap,” but I want to talk about it because it’s such an important one. We must face the inevitability that not…

can a dominant woman submit…and still be dominant?

Some guidelines for female dominants to handle submissive guys

How a guy’s orgasm can make him doubt his submissive role in the lifestyle

Originally posted on Slap Ass For Motivation:
How can something so simple feel so darn good? When you think about scratching during sex, it’s usually the woman doing the scratching. The most familiar mental picture must simply be this: long…