Category Archives: kink

Can the Kink scene be improved?

I wish that clientele/submissives would realize that Dominants are more versatile human beings than what’s in their fantasies…We have moments of emotional drops. We are more than just kinky service providers. Continue reading

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Humiliation & Degradation in BDSM

humiliation can cause significant emotional damage to the bottom or
it can create a deeper trust between top and bottom Continue reading

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Just A Little Expectation

Originally posted on Silken Claws:
Everyone has unrealistic expectations of any dynamic (and any relationship for that matter), when it only exists in fantasy. The moment it begins in practice, we are inevitably disappointed, because reality can never precisely match…

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is there life after Tumblr?

Tumblr is about to purge all adult content in less than a week. Many contributors are scrambling to one or more of several contending replacements: – a crowdfunded Mastodon site (Mastodon created “” a twitter replacement for sex workers. Humblr … Continue reading

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How something that is usually repugnant can become a fetish if you are sexually aroused…

Originally posted on Haven for Vagabonds and Wanderers:
Too much light can be blinding… Are you novice to the now prevalent shades of grey? There are many, who in these past few years, have started relating to BDSM. Many are…

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