Monthly Archives: February 2022

Image: Hands forming a heart with words about metamours around the heart. Image by Nicole Kay at Dark Rose PressMonday February 28 is Metamour Day. That is a day to celebrate your connections with your lovers’ lovers, your spouse’s sweetie, … Continue reading →

If gay life was a giant ballroom (and it kind of is), kinky leathermen have been lingering in the back, in the shadows, for generations. But thanks to the Internet and porn giants like San Francisco-based Kink.com, fetish play has … Continue reading →

Sometimes you have needs that your primary partner cannot satisfy. Can polyamory help your situation? How would you go about it. Here is an example. Even though we’re going to be discussing Doms for the most part, there is really … Continue reading →

An interesting link to a book on Poly relationships Have you ever wondered about polyamory? Well, read on for answers to all your burning questions… Happy Polyamory Day: Celebrating the (not-so) New Wave of Love — Call of the Quean

some interesting resources in poly…If you’re in a hurry, skip to the list … the person I was chatting with lamented that it was hard to navigate all the internet advice out there. Suddenly I was brought back to my … Continue reading →

merging an open relationship into a poly group can be very complex. Eventually the rules & protocols give way to spontaneous activity… Starting a new relationship in the context of existing ones requires different skills than working within the confines … Continue reading →

Reasons a poly person might not want to date a monogamous one: So shout to @polypages on Tik Tok for explaining this term and signs to look out for. This is my first time encountering this term. It basically means … Continue reading →

While my blog focuses specifically on polyamory, it is one of the five various dynamics that you can practice in the ENM space. While there are many list of different type of dynamics in the ENM space, I find breaking … Continue reading →

It takes a lot of bravery and courage to go against the grain of society normative behavior. At a young age I knew that monogamy didn’t seem to fit who I was. Just like being gay and in the closet, … Continue reading →

Now while I have my hang-ups with dating coaches, I find dating apps starting to gear toward ENM types of people. Here is my list of apps and my rating based on MY experience: Feelds – This dating app can … Continue reading →