Category Archives: bdsm-session

The story of the Determined Dominatrix

Posted on February 25, 2023 by dave94015

Originally posted on J R Vincente:
Hello readers! I am back! What does back mean? Back means that I am committing (again) to keep this blog going, and doing more than Insecure Writer’s Support Group and TMI Tuesday. Don’t worry,…

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Can a submissive show his emotions during a bdsm session – or should he suppress them in the ‘man-box’?

Posted on December 26, 2018 by dave94015

A real man is strong and stoic. He doesn’t show emotions other than anger and excitement. Continue reading →

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How her mind rejects the pain but her pussy is aroused by a spanking

Posted on November 28, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on phoems thoughts about life:
I am on a path of self-discovery and I am evolving. That is not an easy thing to do. I am more than 40 years old so it is time, but I don’t…

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Can BDSM be good for your mind?

Posted on November 5, 2018 by dave94015

BDSM participants enjoy the experience of getting away from their day-to-day concerns & attending to things that really matter Continue reading →

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His first encounter with a porn star dominatrix…was mind altering

Posted on October 5, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on More than whips and chains:
The following is an excerpt from More than whips and chains (the book I have been writing for ages) and chronicles my first visit to see a professional Dominatrix.  It was 18…

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A sub guy may feel a major drop after an intense session… here’s how to work it out…

Posted on September 8, 2018 by dave94015

A “drop” refers to the sadness a submissive (or dominant) partner may feel once endorphins crash and adrenaline floods their body after a powerful scene  Continue reading →

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aftercare in femdom & maledom play

Posted on May 9, 2018 by dave94015

If you switch during a #bdsm session, it’s not always clear about who should be giving aftercare to who. I looked into the question and found there’s no simple answer. The aftercare a dominant guy gives to a submissive female … Continue reading →

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Guys, know your limits in Femdom

Posted on April 25, 2018 by dave94015

consider soft limits as things you’ll eventually come around to liking as you get further into the relationship with your dominant Continue reading →

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Guys! check out NN’s spanking stories

Posted on March 25, 2018 by dave94015

at this link: https://ourmarriageanddomesticdiscipline.wordpress.com/spanking-fiction/  

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Can you enjoy D/s without sex?

Posted on January 12, 2018 by dave94015

A skilled domme can condition a guy to realize their deeper desires for happiness with a companion Continue reading →

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