Category Archives: bdsm-session

Can a submissive show his emotions during a bdsm session – or should he suppress them in the ‘man-box’?

Originally posted on Grind_'n'_Throb:
A few weeks ago, I went to an event that was billed as being a space, “exclusive to Female Dominants and those submissive to them.” This event failed to live up to what was…

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How her mind rejects the pain but her pussy is aroused by a spanking

Originally posted on phoems thoughts about life:
I am on a path of self-discovery and I am evolving. That is not an easy thing to do. I am more than 40 years old so it is time, but I don’t…

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Can BDSM be good for your mind?

BDSM participants enjoy the experience of getting away from their day-to-day concerns & attending to things that really matter Continue reading

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His first encounter with a porn star dominatrix…was mind altering

Originally posted on More than whips and chains:
The following is an excerpt from More than whips and chains (the book I have been writing for ages) and chronicles my first visit to see a professional Dominatrix.  It was 18…

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A sub guy may feel a major drop after an intense session… here’s how to work it out…

A “drop” refers to the sadness a submissive (or dominant) partner may feel once endorphins crash and adrenaline floods their body after a powerful scene  Continue reading

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aftercare in femdom & maledom play

If you switch during a #bdsm session, it’s not always clear about who should be giving aftercare to who. I looked into the question and found there’s no simple answer. The aftercare a dominant guy gives to a submissive female … Continue reading

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Guys, know your limits in Femdom

consider soft limits as things you’ll eventually come around to liking as you get further into the relationship with your dominant Continue reading

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