Tag Archives: D/s

Why do some dommes wear fetish clothing?

Submissive guys are attracted and afraid of women in fetish outfits Continue reading

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How we live D/s 24/7

Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Tips On Making A Long Distance Relationship Work How can you have a 24/7 relationship when it’s long distance? Some insights in this post and comments rantingsofanonsensicalmind.com/2019/01/14/how-we-live-d-s-24-7/

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Adventures in cougaring

Originally posted on hiding in plain sight:
I would like to fall madly in love with someone new. I am increasingly realizing that this will necessitate the person being around my age, or at least like 35 (I’m 45). Even…

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Some insights into how to administer spanking for pleasure or punishment

One of the most widespread uses of spanking is as a tool for putting the sub into what is commonly called “sub-space.” Continue reading

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Femdom vs. FLR – which is better for you?

The FLR relationship has a implied or explicit contract. Although some guys would consider it, they prefer to test how a FLR feels before they suggest it to their partner. Continue reading

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The essence of femdom

My Hell is very bearable and My Demons know how to take the reins with equity. Your Brand is My Essence and is imprinted forever in the souls that you possess. Continue reading

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D/s vs. BDSM, lifestyle vs. bedroom kink

Some people want to but don’t know how to transition from bedroom bdsm to lifestyle Continue reading

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How to maintain a #bdsm relationship when you can’t be with the one you dominate (or submit to)

I want you to put on a pair of sexy underwear tonight before I order you to take it off Continue reading

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The submissive Mantra – an example

A submissive can create a mantra to use periodically to reinforce his commitment to his dominant. Here is a link to a female’s mantra to her dominant… via The submissive Mantra

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How To Be A Dominant Woman!

Communicate with your prospective submissive what you want in the relationship Continue reading

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