Tag Archives: D/s

The story of the Determined Dominatrix

Posted on February 25, 2023 by dave94015

Originally posted on J R Vincente:
Hello readers! I am back! What does back mean? Back means that I am committing (again) to keep this blog going, and doing more than Insecure Writer’s Support Group and TMI Tuesday. Don’t worry,…

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D/s burnout, Part II: What do we do about it?

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
Looking inwards, looking back: What people said they wished they’d done and known When I asked people what they wished they had done and known in retrospect, their answers were heartbreaking (and again, painfully…

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D/s burnout, postscript: An aside about gender

Posted on June 22, 2022 by dave94015

Originally posted on Slut, Ph.D.:
You will note as you read the previous two posts that I have recorded people’s gender and d/s roles in their comments. That’s because years of sociological study of the scene have taught me…

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Why do some dommes wear fetish clothing?

Posted on January 21, 2019 by dave94015

Submissive guys are attracted and afraid of women in fetish outfits Continue reading →

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How we live D/s 24/7

Posted on January 17, 2019 by dave94015

Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Tips On Making A Long Distance Relationship Work How can you have a 24/7 relationship when it’s long distance? Some insights in this post and comments rantingsofanonsensicalmind.com/2019/01/14/how-we-live-d-s-24-7/

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Adventures in cougaring

Posted on September 14, 2018 by dave94015

Originally posted on hiding in plain sight:
I would like to fall madly in love with someone new. I am increasingly realizing that this will necessitate the person being around my age, or at least like 35 (I’m 45). Even…

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Some insights into how to administer spanking for pleasure or punishment

Posted on August 30, 2018 by dave94015

One of the most widespread uses of spanking is as a tool for putting the sub into what is commonly called “sub-space.” Continue reading →

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Femdom vs. FLR – which is better for you?

Posted on August 28, 2018 by dave94015

The FLR relationship has a implied or explicit contract. Although some guys would consider it, they prefer to test how a FLR feels before they suggest it to their partner. Continue reading →

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The essence of femdom

Posted on August 27, 2018 by dave94015

My Hell is very bearable and My Demons know how to take the reins with equity. Your Brand is My Essence and is imprinted forever in the souls that you possess. Continue reading →

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D/s vs. BDSM, lifestyle vs. bedroom kink

Posted on August 21, 2018 by dave94015

Some people want to but don’t know how to transition from bedroom bdsm to lifestyle Continue reading →

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