Why do people have fantasies of Watersports in BDSM?

watersports (urophilia) is a pretty uncommon sexual interest…but for some it provides a ritual for a deeper connection to their partners

In   GIRL ON THE NET’s Why Some People Enjoy ‘Watersports’ – And What It’s Really Like

Piss play is sexy for the same reason that BDSM is sexy: it’s considered naughty, dirty, even morally wrong, so we use our sexual playtime to explore the taboo in a safe, consensual way.

I like watching men hold their dicks in their hands. I also like the sheer quantity that you can get with urine…it’s the expression on a guy’s face when he … ‘relieves himself.’ There are echoes of the satisfaction of a really good orgasm.

In    Urine demand: A beginner’s guide to urophilia

Dr. Griffiths cites a paper in a 1982 edition of the Canadian Journal of Psychiatry by Dr R. Denson [that] found that the urine fulfilled many different functions for urophiles. The functions of urine included it (i) serving as a fetishistic object, (ii) being used to humiliate or be humiliated (i.e., through urinating on another person or being urinated upon), and/or (iii) capturing the spirit of a sexual partner. ..

 urination may serve masochistic and/or sadistic purposes

In Golden Showers and Watersports: How Many People are Sexually Aroused by Urine and Why?

psychologists believe that there’s more than one underlying cause, meaning that different people might find urine arousing for very different reasons….attraction to urine could potentially stem from a broader interest in BDSM: some may find it arousing to urinate on a partner as an act of dominance, whereas others may find it arousing to be urinated on or to be “forced” to drink a partner’s urine as an act of submission or humiliation.

others might experiment with watersports out of a more general interest in simply trying something new, novel, or taboo. Likewise, some might give it a try simply because our disgust response lessens during sexual arousal, which means that things we might otherwise think of as gross don’t seem quite as unappealing when we’re horny

having an unusual sexual interest such as urophilia does not necessarily mean that one is mentally disturbed or has a psychological disorder

working with bodily fluids can evolve from a D/s ownership experience to something more primal for both dominants and submissives

To read more, check this post

A majority of men and women have sexual fantasies of BDSM

Slap Ass For Motivation

If you are interested, here’s part 1 from over three years ago when I was still with Sir Sade, my second Dom. After him, with Atticus (my 3rd and last Dom), watersports was less prominently part of our kink. I feel like Atticus did enjoy watersports (urine, saliva, semen) but they weren’t exactly his fetishes. It’s funny to read the part 1 now, of how a hard limit of mine can turn into one of my fetishes. I think my attitude towards the whole thing had changed so much in the last three years too. Before I considered it incredibly erotic because of the whole ownership aspect, and because it felt to kinky doing it, it made me submission feel deeper. But now I felt completely different about it. Let me explain.

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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