Why do some dommes wear fetish clothing?

People don costumes and uniforms to indicate their roles in relationships and society. Dommes often wear fetish clothing. Here’s why.

A dominant will wear fetish gear to inspire and arouse her submissive

Many women oppose “femdom” because they believe it is a male fantasy. The cite the fetish gear that many prodommes wear in their practice as an example. Many lifestyle dominants also wear some “fetish” items.

Although women claim the fetish wear is usually uncomfortable (creating tired feet, lots of sweat), they wear the gear to get their male submissives into the mood. They take great care in selecting the best fitting latex, leather or lace to enhance their assets. Men are turned on by the “sexy” look. Submissive guys are attracted and afraid of women in fetish outfits.

The fetish gear arouses the submissive’s fear and dread

This is precisely the mood the dommes want to set for a D/s session.

Lifestyle dommes may feel the need to wear uncomfortable fetish clothing recede as they substitute other cues to trigger the arousal/fear reaction to their submissive partners.

Thanks for contribution from La Reina Negra .


About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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