Guys, this is what you should look for from your Dom!
Characteristics of a Dominant are extremely varied. Each of us has our own way of looking at the world and interacting within it. For the sake of transparency this post concerns the general qualities of a Dominant with regards to D/s and BDSM. I find it beneficial to state at the onset that many of the characteristics of a good Dominant partner parallel those characteristics of a good Leader. So let us start with the characteristics of good leadership.
- Self- awareness. A self-aware person understand their strengths and knows what strengths complement their own. A self- aware person also knows what they want, accepts how they feel, and can persevere through a myriad of difficulties both personal and interpersonal. This is because the self-aware person knows who they are, what they need, and makes healthy compromises based on those needs.
- Self-control. This is a very important trait for…
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