Some remarkable insights into the psyche of ‘caring sadists’
A handful of recent conversations I have had with subs leads me to believe there is a bit of misunderstanding when it comes to lifestyle D/s involving sadists. There seems to be a bit of a notion that they can easily cast aside feelings and inflict unbearable levels of pain and suffering upon a sub.
Don’t get me wrong, you will find predatory sadistic dominants that are narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, and the like, but the majority of sadists are well-rounded and caring people. What separates them from others is that they have dominant impulses and desires that affect them in the same way that submissive impulses and desires affect subs.
A lot of times when people are frustrated that a dominant doesn’t have enough of those impulses, a sadist is probably a better fit. There just frequently seems to be some sort of mental block that keeps them from seriously…
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