The Return of Domme Kitten

How submission can be a state of utter relaxation, where you can let go all of the worries, stress, self-consciousness and …boost your self-confidence

Slap Ass For Motivation

On my birthday this year, I got two presents from Sir Atticus, one of them is a little toy in the form of a 23-year-old girl. Let’s call her Poppy, cos she reminds me of Vanellope from the movie ‘Wreck-it-Ralph’, full of energy and a force of nature. Sir promised me free reign (almost), I can do almost anything I want as long as I remain subservient to Him. Even though I remain under His command, He did give permission for Domme Kitten to come out to play. 😛

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Submission – What Does It Mean To Me?

How one can dominate…through submission

N.B: This blog post was inspired by an email from the Loving BDSM30 Days of D/s. If you haven’t listened to their podcast yet please do so, you can also check out the website for great resources and links on how to listen or follow on social media. 


As I said in my post Dominance – What Does It Mean To Me, when I first joined the kink community I identified as submissive. My logic here was a little off, but with a lack of knowledge and experience I really just made assumptions about myself. What I knew was that I enjoyed being sexually submissive, particularly with men, admittedly less so with women. I also knew that I had a blossoming interest in kink, I put the two together and reasoned that I would also enjoy being a submissive in the BDSM sense.

When I first looked…

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Chores are Inherently not Fun

How he can get excited to serve not from the chore, but from being commanded to do the chore…to bring his partner calm, happy feelings

Her Wish - My Command

Chore is defined as a small job or routine task, especially domestic and usually unpleasant. So why do I want to do them? I usually ponder this while in the middle of one and come to the conclusion that I don’t. The next level of thought is, “Why am I doing this?”

That is a complex question that boils down to a simple answer, I find enjoyment in serving my wife and having her control me. When we started down this path, my goal was to release some of the stress from her in cleaning the house for a party. This worked. What I truly enjoy is bringing her calm, happy, pleasing feelings. I like knowing she is happy and satisfied and that I helped get her there.

This has evolved into home cleaning, yard work, cooking, and body pampering. It was initially embarrassing that I would get an erection…

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Spirituality, Sexuality and BDSM.

Is there a the Spiritual side to fetish and BDSM? Is it a spirituality with levels of consciousness of “balance, shadow and light, pain, pleasure and…Dominance and servitude”

FemDom Fantasy and Fetish

Some individuals within the BDSM and fetish lifestyle are more comfortable with others knowing about their “taboos”. Unfortunately, even with advances with people being more open-minded as well as the growing number of people joining the fetish community there are still many that keep it in the closet, away from friends, family and even spouses.   Not all activities are as hardcore as others, such as light bondage compared to rope and rigging. What a good majority of vanillas do not realize is that the things that we do are not just for fun but an actual way of life. It brings us joy, completion and excitement, a living embodiment of Art and Passion.   How many of you can truly call it a Spiritual experience?  Non-fetishists and the like as well as partakers also fail to see and feel the Spiritual side of fetish and BDSM.  I cannot speak for everyone…

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Our appointment

A stopover for a quickie…and a mocha!

Thoughts of Miss Evie

I call you as I head to your place. I’m 20 minutes away.

‘Get ready for me. Make sure you are in the appropriate state when I arrive’

Just hearing the words come out makes me wet. I don’t have much time today but I need a release and you are just the right person for the job. As I arrive at your flat I can feel my juices against the fabric of my underwear and top of my thighs.

When the door opens it’s clear that you are naked as expected. Such a beautiful man especially as you fall to your knees. I lift my dress and stroke my wet thighs, with my juiced hand I hold the side of your face and you instantly try to lick my hand.

SLAP! ‘Hey you are usually such a well behaved boy what do gou think you are doing?’

‘I’m sorry…

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What Happens On FryDay

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you get spanked!

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some guidelines for submissives…

A new submissive recently asked my advice. It made me smile to think that I’ve been doing this long enough, and that my contentment is so evident, that someone should think my advice worth having. I am happy to share what I told her. Although she asked for “advice” and it is just easier, language-wise, […]

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