Subs should show their appreciation… for their dominants!
Recently I was thanked after a play session with a relatively new play partner. As we sat in after care, he stated how difficult it was to express genuine, authentic feelings of gratitude and how odd that was given the context of what we had been doing.
On the ride home I realized that this was the first time anyone had thanked me for playing with them. Ever. I’ve been on the left side of the slash for several years now and no one had ever thanked me. The more I thought about it the more angry I became especially when I thought about the fact that I always make it a point to thank my bottoms. The fact that this had never been reciprocated didn’t occur to me until I felt the wave of gratitude created by being appreciated.
The funny thing about this is that I do it…
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