Category Archives: bdsm-culture

D/s vs. BDSM, lifestyle vs. bedroom kink

Some people want to but don’t know how to transition from bedroom bdsm to lifestyle Continue reading

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How to maintain a #bdsm relationship when you can’t be with the one you dominate (or submit to)

I want you to put on a pair of sexy underwear tonight before I order you to take it off Continue reading

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The submissive Mantra – an example

A submissive can create a mantra to use periodically to reinforce his commitment to his dominant. Here is a link to a female’s mantra to her dominant… via The submissive Mantra

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Femdom dating (humor)

You’re a strong, masculine guy with maybe a touch of submissiveness with the right person Continue reading

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Guys! are you Slipping into a #FLR?

FLR’s change the relationship dynamic. Usually,  one member of the couple wants to move further into the FLR than the other Continue reading

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Sex and Candy – Thoughts on Sex and Femdom

I admire and don’t mind submitting to my partner because of how she always “tops” me sexually and mentally. Continue reading

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Guys, if your dominant gives you oral, is she submissive?

Domination and submission are not determined simply by acts you do with your partner, but by the dynamic of the relationship Continue reading

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What’s the difference between a “dominant” and a “top” in Femdom?

It is important to be flexible in your thinking and versatile in your activities in #bdsm relationships Continue reading

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Guys! Need some help here…

the US Senate has passed the anti-sex trafficking bills SESTA/FOSTA . The bills now go to the US Pres. for signing Continue reading

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Why #bdsm relationships are so intense…and why some don’t get it

is bdsm something you can try on like a new set of clothes? Why does bdsm appeal to a select few but not to most people who have tried it? Continue reading

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