An FLR can start at the time of the conventional marriage or later.
Can a Female Led Relationship (FLR) save a marriage?
In Can a FLR save my marriage?
put the wife in charge of the marriage and all will be well. ..
What a FLR can do and do very well is ensure that a marriage will not need saving.
I believe that the cornerstone of a female led relationship is the woman’s total control over her husband or boyfriend’s sexuality. A cock cage is best but even absent a cage, a man needs to understand that his sexual desires are to conform to his wife’s needs.
it is a matter of a woman taking charge of her own sexual enjoyment …
Properly disciplined a submissive husband will never have any odious habits. He’ll be showed and shaved on the schedule you set. He will ask permission before having a beer or a glass of wine. He will stay at the weight you decide is best for him and exercise to ensure he avoids the dreaded Dad bod. A dominant wife with a fat husband is a contradiction in terms. Most women enjoy being enfolded in good, strong arms. In this day and age, that means working out. Not too hard, but regularly. Part of his training is to keep himself desirable for you even if you rarely allow him the pleasure of sex. He needs to know that you are proud of him, see him as your arm candy with all that implies.
In an FLR the wife has the last word. When she says, “Not another word.” she can back it up with anything from a brief timeout in his corner to a full scale whipping with multiple instruments with her husband tied down. A well trained, well-disciplined husband learns to listen, carefully, to whatever his wife says. He learns to do exactly what he is told and to do nice things without being asked.
The time to save your marriage is long before it needs saving.
Many marriages fail because of a lack of communication or a miscommunication. FLR’s based on BDSM often have contracts. Contracts can be a basis for communication (among other topics). Communication can lead to corrective action by either behavior change or punishment (or both).
FLR’s have more success when built upon a stable marriage. An FLR can set the scene for negotiating wants and needs that each partner has in the interest of maintaining the relationship.
Here’s an account about how a marriage ended because of miscommunication but there is hope for a FLR. Why a FLR is different from a marriage.
I’m flattered for the reblog, but if I may, I just have to say that I don’t feel like I failed in my marriage. We couldn’t see past our own selves to communicate like we should have. It was a lot of things. But I tried as hard as I could to make it work. Ultimately it was one sided. Anyway, I don’t take offense, just felt the need to clarify. Enjoy!
I’ll update my post on the intro to yours to clarify the post. Thanks for letting me know what happened. Communication is often mentioned as a reason for divorce. Flr’s lay out the necessary elements for a contract that can serve as a basis for communication. Vanilla marriage could benefit from this. Hopefully your future endeavor will be more successful.
Np, no worries.