Dom, sub or switch? (Day 1 of 30 Days of Kink)

a dominant may say she prefers administering discipline to a submissive guy, but she may also enjoy it in the right place!

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I start these 30 day writing prompts and never quite manage to complete them. But I came across this one today, 30 Days of Kink and have decided to try again. So here goes it with Day 1:

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you.  Basically define your kinky self for us.

I pretty much explained my thoughts on being a switch in my previous post History so I won’t go into all that again and I’ll focus instead on BDSM.

Urban Dictionary defines BDSM as:

A physical, psychological and usually sexual power-role-play with consensual participants.

An overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS),  Sadism and Masochism (SM).

So the question is “What parts of BDSM interest you?”

Uhhh… all of the above!

Bondage: yummy! I love love love being restrained. Cuffs, rope, chains…. doesn’t matter. The idea of being totally exposed, vulnerable, so he can do whatever he wants and there is nothing I can do about it… fans self. Conversley, restraining my sub is also great fun.

Discipline: hmm I know I like to give discipline. But do I like to get it? Logically, in my head, no. I’m a grown-ass woman. I don’t need discipline. But ummm… try telling that to my pussy, which gets wet at the thought of being disciplined. Ugh. My body betrays me.

Dominance and submission: Obviously, I love everything to do with this.

Sadism: I am sadistic. I don’t know why I find enjoyment in giving pain. I haven’t delved much into the reason for it. I hold back a lot because s is not a masochist and can’t take too much. I long to just let loose on someone who enjoys it but that scares me as well. Just because I haven’t done it yet. I don’t want to make a mistake.

Masochism: I find pain cathartic. Pain mixed with pleasure is even more delicious. I have recently learned I can take a lot. At least that’s what I’m told. I have yet to call red because he has known, even before I, when I’ve had enough. I’d like to experience that one day but again it’s something that scares me.

As for my kinky self, I’d say I’m exploring that. Most everything I’ve tried so far I have enjoyed. Looking at my fetish list on fetlife  gives you a pretty good idea of what I’m into. Some of it includes: bondage, anal, cock worship, pussy worship (receiving), impact play, DD/lg, age play, orgasm control, toys, and so on.

Miss D

I start these 30 day writing prompts and never quite manage to complete them. But I came across this one today, 30 Days of Kink and have decided to try again. So here goes it with Day 1:

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you.  Basically define your kinky self for us.

I pretty much explained my thoughts on being a switch in my previous post History so I won’t go into all that again and I’ll focus instead on BDSM.

Urban Dictionary defines BDSM as:

A physical, psychological and usually sexual power-role-play with consensual participants.

An overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS),  Sadism and Masochism (SM).

So the question is “What parts of BDSM interest you?”

Uhhh… all of the above!

Bondage: yummy! I love love love being…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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