One of the most important things to do in a poly relationship is to set boundaries!
What is the hardest part of being poly? The answer is simple: Figuring out who’s going to spend the night with whom and in what bed.
Ok, so that’s probably not an incredibly interesting subject of a blog post. So then what is the second hardest part about being poly? It’s not jealousy. Or insecurity. In my opinion, the second hardest part about being poly is learning to set boundaries.
How many times have you seen this cycle play out? A very nice and kind person who everyone loves decides they’re going to spend some time “working on boundaries”. Next thing you know, a person who was once very kind and caring suddenly starts using expressions like “This is all I have, take it or leave it” and “I’m sorry. That’s your problem, not mine.”
I think the root of these kinds of behaviors is what I will call the
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