There is that moment in pain-play when the male submissive whimpers, cries, moans and reacts, a moment which reveals his innermost trust in his dominant. This power exchange between the dominant and the submissive strengthens their bonds. When the slave wears an ownership collar, ordinary events bring out the deepest emotions.
The power of BDSM extends to many aspects relating to the physical, the spiritual, the intellectual and the relational. Many very well written books and articles are widely available, and an equally impressive number of articles are focused on how BDSM can be a real revelation for individuals as well as couples. A common theme that runs through many of the readings one can find is intimacy. More specifically, on how BDSM, beyond enhancing intimacy in couples, opens new doors and actually redefines the very concept of intimacy.
Intimacy, however, is not only a matter of inter-personal relationship dynamics. It begins with the self, and BDSM, in this respect, is truly powerful. We often relegate our self to the background, almost as a ‘residual’ aspect of social interactions. This leads to lack of dialogue with the self, and more often than not, loss of power and fading of identity. In…
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