Can a guy’s dick be too big?


Guys keep sending dick-pics to prospective dates but are they turning them off?


we…have a social narrative that bigger is better and that if a man doesn’t measure up he’s less of a man 

What is the range of dick sizes? in For a penis, how big is too big?

Most men seem to think the size of their penis has some bearing on how manly/masculine they are – and if they aren’t well-enough endowed may tend to overcompensate with bravado or by buying big fancy cars/trucks to show off.

On the other hand most women seem to be only mildly interested in penis size if at all and except for the extremes on either end of the size charts are more concerned about how well the male uses what he’s got and what sort of person the guy attached to the penis is like.

What is the distribution of dick length?


And what is the average circumference (girth) of a dick?


And what size-girth do women prefer?




in Why Women Evolved To Love Men With Huge Penises,


a lot of women really do prefer larger penises when looking for a significant other…our female ancestors would intentionally seek out men who could sexually satisfy them the most…bigger penises led to higher levels of satisfaction.

women were naturally drawn to the men who they deemed would be the most successful in reproduction…women preferred a penis measuring in 6.3 inches for a lifelong partner, yet preferred a bigger penis for a casual hook up…some studies indicate that preference for a larger penis might arise because penis size is associated with higher rates of vaginal orgasm…sexual satisfaction seems to be the main reason behind the evolution of a bigger penis… you can thank evolution and our ancestor’s burning desire to reproduce for women being predisposed to prefer a bigger penis

Can a guy be too big?

From What size is the average penis? 

Women don’t want men with big penises

  • For long-term sexual partners, they went for a penis of slightly shorter circumference and length compared with their choices for one-night stands, choosing an average length of 6.3 inches and a girth of 4.8 inches.

  • This compared with their preference for one-time sex partners being for a length of 6.4 inches and a circumference of 5.0 inches.



In How big is too big? ,

According to many surveys conducted around the world, many women said that they are afraid of penises that are too big as they have the chance to hit their cervix. The painful experience does not only stop at the woman crying or moaning in pain, but also the man who is above 8 inches feel horrible about himself because they hurt someone they care for…most women prefer a man who is between 5 and 7.5 inches long.

If you’re not sure, check with your doctor. You may have Oversized Male Genitalia (OMG).

in How to Make Sex Great If Your Partner’s Penis Is Too Big writes:

women should

Communicate feelings about their partner’s size to them

Prepare With Foreplay

The more time that is spent on you and your pleasure, the more aroused you’ll be, and the more your body will be ready to brave his beautiful penis. Even if wetness isn’t your issue, adding extra lubrication to the action for more comfort never hurts


Assume the Position

engage with him with shallow thrusting positions.

The closer your legs are to each other, the less likely he’ll go too deep, making the Coital Alignment Technique (or CAT) position an excellent choice if you’re keen on missionary. Woman-on-top is also a great position because it puts you in control of how far he enters you, how you move, and at what speed.

If you’re still “too big” for your partner, what can you do?

There’s always “butt sex” but many women have smaller butts than guys and anal sex is often painful but can be done (see my previous post to a guide on anal sex).

Some guys try Sex Workers (SW) assuming if they pay them enough they’ll take them on as clients. But an escort may have her limits. Porn stars do.

In a video, Jay Taylor Interviews Lance Hart, Hart asks Taylor if she would fuck another porn star. She said she wouldn’t “because he’s too big…16 inches”.

Some guys have turned to other guys for sex because they cannot get satisfied by women. See my previous post about Can a guy have sex with other guys and not be gay?

For more info on this topic see How to get fucked

there are physical limitations you need to consider too, to avoid any damage to your arse. With time and experience, some men enjoy taking large objects (like big dildos or fists) up their arses, but there is a limit. Anything that goes up your arse has to go through the pelvic opening, which is about four to five inches across in diameter. Anything bigger than that will probably cause serious damage if you do manage to get it in.

There may be limitations to how much anal sex you can engage in. In Joseph Sciambra’s Anal Sex and Gay Male Incontinence

anal intercourse between men can become completely aggressive and ultimately damaging. According the National Health Service of the UK, it is not uncommon for physicians and medical personnel to find a number of Traumatic Anorectal Conditions in “gay” men, including: Traumatic Proctitis, Peri-Anal Haematoma, and Anal Fissures and Ulcers.*

Doing oral on a guy’s oversized dick can get you injured


Fredy Alanis ended up in hospital after performing oral sex on a man with a large penis

Alanis tweeted:

Excuse the bad angle but remember when I sucked a hulk sized dick and ended up in the ER afterwards LMFAO never forget 

The incident has not put him off sex, and he has even had another hook-up with the same man.

‘But now ‘when we decide to hook up or whatever he is a lot less rough’, Alanis said.

If you’re still squeamish about anal sex, fantasize about it:



Can't Fit it All In

in Can’t Fit it All In



About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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