How to be a Dom… Order and Rules

Rules and orders issued by a dominant could be counter to honest reactions and interactions with a sub. Here is a guide for making rules and issuing orders for a sub.

Domme By Default

One of the most common topics Dom/me want to talk to me about are the rules for their submissive, more specifically what rules to create, what rules to avoid, and how to enforce them.
The entire concept of the D/s dynamic is a relationship built around a ruleset. Some of these rules are inherent to the dynamic, while the others are enforced as a reaction to it. It’s crucial to understand the goal of these rules to avoid making mistakes along the way.
I am a proponent of honest dynamics. What I mean by this is I, personally, am only interested in truly honest reactions and interactions with a sub. To push a sub’s limits, you need to have enough information to know exactly where his/her limits lie, and how you can push on them in a positive, beneficial manner. The more information you have, the more able you will…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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