Femdom dating (humor)

A  submissive guy may think it’s impossible to find and date a dominant but there are many that are looking for a companion who may become their slave.

 

from Submissive Dating: How to Attract a Domme here are some pointers:

 

Know What You Want and Need

Some guys don’t know what they want from a partner such as a FWB or a LTR. In this case, it’s probably best to seek the “easy come, easy go” route, i.e. a STR, and see how it goes. Although you may be turned on by her “Its all about me” dominant personality, you may find it irritating after awhile. On the other hand, if she’s nagging you it’s time to get off your butt and do things.

 

 

Know What You Have to Offer

Just because you may have a submissive personality, you’re not necessarily a despicable low-life unless you really like being that way. You just like the company of a more dominant leader. As a guy, you have lots to offer her.

For one thing, you’re a lot stronger than she is physically (unless she is an olympic weight-lifting champ). You know how to fix cars, motorcycles…or bicycles. You can act tough and macho when some other guy gets in the way. You can listen to her backstabbing other women and not give a hoot. You can let her go on in her girlie manner because she’s just that way. You can usually make a lot more money over time.

Even if none of this is true, you have to act like you could be the most important thing in her life. And who knows? Maybe you will be her S.O. if you stick around long.

 

Get to Know Her

Learn what she is looking for in a guy. If she’s vague about her preference for a long or short term relationship, you may have a chance to get it the way you want. Take her to a restaurant or a bar. See if she can relate to you. If it’s all about her, well maybe it’s time to reconsider.

In any event, do not submit to her physically the first few times you meet her. Yeah, you can blush when she says things like: “I like to spank good-looking boys like you”.

You flirt with her: “yes ma’am,” you smile at her, “there’s nothing better than a solid spanking from someone who knows how to discipline a bad boy!”

 

Learn How to Be a Good Submissive

You’re a strong, masculine guy with maybe a touch of submissiveness with the right person. You know what you want out of life and you’re not afraid to get it. If she can be your companion in the direction you’re going, all the better.

Over time you show your admiration and respect for things she does. You might even be willing to join with her passions if she lets you.

Contribute to the Relationship

You suggest options to her and let her choose. “I’d like to go out to a restaurant tonight, do you prefer Chinese, Mexican or Italian?” “Do you think I should wear a tie to this event?” “If you tie a guy up, do you prefer rope or wrist and ankle cuffs?”

 

Dommes Are Human Too

Don’t expect your dominant to be perfect all the time. Don’t be disappointed if she makes mistakes. Don’t cringe when you discover how messy she really is at times, don’t make final decisions about her when she unexpectedly goes ape on you (unless you’re tied up and she’s holding a vicious torture instrument). Loosen up a bit about the things she does. There will be times when she’ll be weaker than you. Don’t lose sight of your longer interest in her.

Over time you’ll realize your role with her: to serve, suffer and tremble in her dominance. Be yourself and don’t hide how aroused you are about her ways when you know you’ll also feel the pain from her too.

Your dating with her will go better if you show her that you want her for who she is and don’t give up too easily.