Femdom Flirting

 

Submissive guys can flirt with their dominant to rekindle their special relationship. For a submissive or a dominant, flirting tells your partner that you want to get them into a D/s mindset.

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If your date with a dominant is going smoothly, you can slip a few hints of how you’d like to submit to her as in this example from  Submissive flirting :

If you still want to slip in a little submissiveness once you’ve already gotten to know a woman you could convey in a confident way how much you want to worship her, and/or how excited you are to give her pleasure, in whatever way she wants

There’s also nothing spineless or wimpy about saying you can’t wait to be fucked up and completely owned by her

An example of a dominant flirting is by Ferns from Domme Chronicles :

He might roll his eyes at something silly I have just done.
I laugh and look shocked. “Did you just eyeroll at me?!”
“Um… yeah… I was just kidding, really… um… sorry…”
Maybe he blushes, maybe he is made shy by being called on it, maybe he smirks. We both recognize the moment.
I might act indignant. “I should think so!”
There is a little frisson in it, a hint of sexual tension and hotness, a recognition of each other.

I’ve personalized some of the tips Sugarbutch  suggests for flirting as a submissive:

1. Establish whether or not they want to be flirted with. Just ask if you can flirt with them, is this the right time?

“Ma’am, may I have the pleasure of your time for a little flirtation?”

2. If they have a submissive already, befriend them. Figure out who he is and befriend him. He’ll feel a lot less threatened and may even give you tips on how to approach his dominant.

I use this approach when I want to have a threesome with a D/s couple. Usually the dominant will send her sub to fetch drinks. I’ll say: “I’d like to join with you two a little later, ok?”

3. Offer to be of service. “May I be your personal servant this evening, ma’am?”

4. Use their title. If you don’t know her title or name, call her ma’am to start. “May I know the name of the most exquisite person in the bar tonight?”

5. Be willing to be wrong. “I’m sorry I called you ma’am. Thank you for the permission to call you Mistress X”

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6. Ask for what you want. “I’ll make you any drink you’d like tonight.” This is a useful line because if she wants a drink you’ve never heard of, you can engage her further in conversation: “If it would please you, Mistress X, tell me how to make this drink and I will do it as you require.” I am offering to serve her as she orders.

7. Offer your contact information. Give her this in hopes that something can develop further. It helps to have a sharpie pen handy as she might write her number on your arm. If she does, thank her: “Thank you mistress X for the privilege of meeting you. When do you prefer I contact you?”

 

 

 

About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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