that fine line – does it cause everyone confusion?

Pain play from a dominant can be fulfilling to a sub… but not pleasurable.

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“Their is a fine line between pleasure and pain” go the words of the song, and they continue ‘you’ve done it once and you can do it again’.  But I find the interaction between pleasure and pain for more complex than a line to be crossed. Both can exist at once, or more to the point a type of fulfilment of desperate need can be fulfilled while feeling pain.  I do not know the pleasure best describes that fulfilment of pain though.

A huge contradiction is that sexually I need my owner to inflict that pain to feel that fulfilment.  In my case not physical but emotional pain, but it still distils down to that I need her to inflict pain.  But the pain only comes when my owner delivers this pain.

Now I do not generally like pain.  Just as I do not picture physical pain masochists spend all day slamming car doors with…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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