Pain play from a dominant can be fulfilling to a sub… but not pleasurable.
“Their is a fine line between pleasure and pain” go the words of the song, and they continue ‘you’ve done it once and you can do it again’. But I find the interaction between pleasure and pain for more complex than a line to be crossed. Both can exist at once, or more to the point a type of fulfilment of desperate need can be fulfilled while feeling pain. I do not know the pleasure best describes that fulfilment of pain though.
A huge contradiction is that sexually I need my owner to inflict that pain to feel that fulfilment. In my case not physical but emotional pain, but it still distils down to that I need her to inflict pain. But the pain only comes when my owner delivers this pain.
Now I do not generally like pain. Just as I do not picture physical pain masochists spend all day slamming car doors with…
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