It’s the little things that a dominant can do…to get her partner into a submissive headspace
One of the things I’ve been asked most often by inexperienced Dominant women is how to create a submissive headspace in their partner.
And yeah, it can be tough. Real life and its responsibilities can make things difficult, and put a sub’s headspace far from where it should be.
The best way, in my experience, is to appeal to the sub’s lust and desire, and combine that with surprise and humiliation. This combination creates a firm reminder of his position in the relationship, and the surprise is to jar his head a bit, to break the hold that the real-world bullshit has on him.
Interestingly enough, I was just talking today about something I’ve done to surprise and alter my boys’ headspace, so I figured I’d do it again tonight.
Kazander’s had a rough couple of weeks at work. Like, rough enough that he may start looking for a new…
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