Learning the “ropes” in #BDSM isn’t easy…and some people may not be ready for their first steps…an account of a reluctant newbie

The Secret Aspie

Over the last month, I have started to mentor a new dominant. She is so new the plastic wrap has not come off yet and it shows. She does not just need mentoring in the lifestyle but emotionally and psychologically, I am starting to wonder if I have bitten off more than I can chew.

She is at the start of finding out what she enjoys and what sort of sub she wants to be with and wants to just play casually and experience. I can understand it as she has come out of a long relationship and most people want a break from that type of dynamic.

It is exciting to her having the attention of subs all vying for her attention. It will be good for her self-confidence and each experience will boost her confidence as a domme and in who she is.

But and yes I was…

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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