an “open marriage” is how you & your partner define it. Here’s DDJennifer and Mike’s definition.
It’s about time for another general musing post, this time addressing my feelings about sex with Matt.
Ultimately, yes, we have an open marriage. Like any kink, when it comes to labels – what things are, what they mean, and how they make you feel – are going to be different for every person and couple. I don’t think of our marriage as “open,” but it sure isn’t closed! HA! I like to think of it as being open to “possibilities” versus just wide open for all to come and go.
IS IT CHEATING WITH PERMISSION?
No, that is not an accurate representation. There is no cheating as we are always playing by the rules of behavior that Mike and I have established for ourselves. It is only cheating if you break the rules.
IS IT ALL ABOUT SEX?
No, it isn’t. It’s about lots and lots…
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