The Scene

Tips for how a dominant can maintain control of a sub in a scene

The Value-BDSM blog

Some might think as a Dominant you need to scream and curse in order to get what you want. This is far from the case. Instead, you may want to think about the way in which you can be calm and controlling – without even saying a word.
I always say as a Dominant you have to be a role model in so many aspects of life for Your submissive.Anyways back to some usefull tips in how to conduct yourself as a responsible Dominant.

Use Your Voice

Your voice is one of your best assets as a Dominant. With the words you choose and the tone you use, you can create an air of civility, even as you spank your submissive for the hundredth time. Think about being graceful and calm, lowering your voice as you talk to your submissive. Not only does this cause them to be more subdued…

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interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - early 30's
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