How experience improves a dominant’s skills…and how you often get what you pay for
“Hey Nineteen, that’s ‘Retha Franklin” –Donald Fagen & Walter Becker
*Randy wrote to me a few months ago, claiming to be under a Domme’s training. He wrote that he had been seeing her for a few months and felt that it was, in his words, “a bad fit”. In his email, he chalked his dissatisfaction up to his Mistresses youth and lack of qualification. He thought he would fare better in his training under the tutelage of someone more adept.
During our first meeting, he enlightened me in greater detail. According to him, his experiences thus far had been pretty disappointing. He claimed his most recent Mistress had no theory of dominance beyond issuing random orders for him to obey and meting out punishment at her whim, usually without method or provocation. He described her default setting as “demanding bitch”. I advised him to temper his language when…
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