are leaders likable and dominants people we dislike? Or can they both be admired and liked in #bdsm?
Right now, in your head, think of the first three words that come to mind that describe the traits of someone who is a strong leader. Got it? Got all three? Don’t read on until you have all three. That’s only two. . . one more. Okay, you may proceed.
Now think of the first three words that come to mind that describe the traits of someone who is a strong Dominant? Hmm, any differences in your lists?
My guess is your lists were very different, but why? Who doesn’t like a good leader? We praise and admire good leaders and society constantly reinforces such praise and admiration. A Dominant? No such praise and admiration. We likely have a negative bias towards the word “dominant.” After all, even the word is akin to domineering – asserting one’s will over another in an arrogant way…
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