Monthly Archives: June 2017

Double Standards in Fantasy, Porn, and Kink – 2017 Edition

Originally posted on Femdom Ramblings from a submissive male:
Yes, I’m revisiting a topic that I have written about before as it is fresh in my thoughts… Today while leaving some comments on a blog entry I got to thinking…

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Chastity is not always fun.

Originally posted on Locks Keys:
When I create a new chastity assignment  for Grumpy, I use a random number generator to determine how long it will last. This last assignment was a mere 23 days. LAME! To make it worse ,…

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#WhySurvivorsDontReport

Examples of why the stigma against victims of sexual abuse and the shame that comes with it contributes to less reporting of rape.

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148. Dom/sub Therapy Session

Originally posted on Domestic Discipline, Jenny style!:
My last post talked about my little spiral towards a self-pity party.  The trigger for this self-absorbed unhappiness was the challenges I was having in maintaining a submissive mindset.   Those frustrations with…

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when your D/s relationship goes stale – what can you do to rekindle it?

those in the #lifestyle can choose almost any rituals that symbolize their special commitment  Continue reading

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Different Partner, Different Dominance

How one’s expression of dominance varies with the personality of the sub they are with

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Completely unrelated non-travel post

Originally posted on Eikarons Welt:
Here’s the thing: I have always had this notion that almost every extended family above a certain size will inevitably have at least one queer person by simple matter of statistics. My family is actually…

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Why many victims don’t report rape & why Cosby might not get any jail time

I generally advocate the consenting adult type of sex, but there are much more non-consenting situations where perpetrators get away with the abuse to both women & men. If we want to support consenting sex between adults (including #SW), we … Continue reading

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A piece of erotic fiction I wrote.

it is often necessary to take a break from office work…and get down with a guy!

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Has #femdom become a cliche?

the presence of “cliches” doesn’t mean that #bdsm & #femdom are simply a game of kink Continue reading

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