Are #prodommes only for guys with #bdsm experience?

many in the #bdsm scene don’t trust younger people

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15 Pics Of A 60-YO #Domme W. Her Client http://bit.ly/2rF95BM

Some guys have told me that they have been turned away by dominatrixes because they didn’t have enough experience. Here are some reasons:

  • he may not know what he wants from a domme
  • he may only prefer the #bdsm fantasy but shy away from the real thing
  • he has no idea(s) about his hard or soft limits
  • he probably has little tolerance for bondage or pain
  • he won’t observe the protocols that most domme’s expect
  • he’s usually not dressed appropriately
  • he might bounce from one domme to another without developing any connection to any of them
  • he will resist going to the next level; he may freak out and not return
  • since no one in the scene knows him, nobody trusts him

 

 

 

 

But how can a guy get a start in #bdsm? If he goes to clubs, he’ll usually be ignored. If he attends munches, he’ll be told to attend various instructional events and after a few of these, he’s still alone.

At least 1 domina, Victoria Rage, welcomes the novice. Here is her post:

 

 

I’ll come right out and say it, I love novices. Admittedly, with my schedule often dominated by my dearly beloved regulars, I don’t have as much time as I used to for such appointments. However, this month I’ve been graced with some thoroughly amazing encounters featuring brand spankin’ new playmates. Let me tell you, it’d just […]

via Hello Sweet Stranger, Are You Ready For Me? — The Diary of a Dominatrix – Domina Victoria Rage

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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