Submission to who?

If you’ve wanted to get into #bdsm… things to consider


Desperately, in the confines of, what might be a borderline relationship, between vanilla and fetish, I have assumed that my partner can not fulfil the desire I have to submit and sought to satisfy that desire, with her knowledge, elsewhere.

Aware of her concerns, I have limited myself to online contact with male dominants. We have discussed her watching me being dominated but I’m frightened that it will feel awkward.

Now, I’m wondering whether I can show her how to dominate me. Again, I am unsure about how that will feel.

It’s time to bite the bullet and be brave. I have been frustrated for too long!

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About dave94015

interested in alternative relationships, visual artist, erotic romance writer and reviewer of erotica, drug rehab clinic intern - mid 20's
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One Response to Submission to who?

  1. naughtynora00 says:

    It is worth a try! My husband was very vanilla the first 14 years we were together. He tells me now that he never knew he was dominant and he never knew he would want the type of lifestyle we have now (whereas I have always known). He has matured into the roll beautifully. At first, I did help him learn through open, honest communication. He’s got it now and he keeps me firmly in my submissive place 🙂

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